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What to call of doctor or prostitute ?*x-to-cure-her-patients/Article1-756833.aspx


Therapist who has s*x to cure her patients


Padma Deva, 31, a London-based s*x therapist, treads an unbeaten path in helping her patients cope with an unfulfilled s*x life by sleeping with them. Her oldest client is aged 65 while the youngest is 25. "Both men consulted Padma because they were virgins and felt unable to have any
sort of s*x life. Padma helps them overcome their fears over nine two-hour sessions for which she charges £4,000," reported Daily Mail.


Trained by the International Professional Surrogate Association, Padma told the website that her role is to be a form of mentor, guiding people who are struggling with intimacy issues.

When Padma Deva meets a new client for work she does not go to a conventional meeting point like her office or a coffee joint, instead she chooses a private space like a hotel room.

Sex"During an initial consultation with a new client, Padma - who has bases in London and Somerset - recommends a client sees their GP to rule out physical causes for their s*xual problems, such as diabetes or high blood pressure. If surrogacy is deemed appropriate, she asks clients to take a s*xually transmitted disease test beforehand. Only then can then the surrogacy work begin."

"The meeting usually lasts for two hours during which time the two of them are likely to undress, massage and caress one another. Sometimes they will have full s*xual intercourse."

At the end of the encounter, the satisfied client will pay Padma for the service she has provided and the two will go their separate ways - until their next appointment.

You may conclude that Padma works in 'the oldest profession' of all. But you would be wrong.

Padma is not a prostitute but a trained psychotherapist who acts as a 's*xual surrogate' for men suffering from a variety of s*xual problems which are hampering their ability to have a normal physical relationship.

"How does her family react?
Her family was initially shocked by her radical career change, though they are now supportive of her.

Equally, she says that while she is currently single, previous boyfriends have been understanding about her line of work.

"It takes confidence, intelligence and maturity in a man to be OK with what I do," she told Daily Mail.

What inspired her?
Padma is a former management consultant who decided to transform her life after watching the film Sweet November, in which Keanu Reeves plays an emotionally-inert workaholic.

She also told this to Daily Mail: "I read about the Mughal era in India, where they would send young boys to specialised prostitutes who would educate them in the art of love-making. I remember wishing something like that had been available to me."

How do professionals view her approach?
Psychologist Dr Mantell questions whether such cases wouldn't be better treated by more conventional forms of therapy.

"Turning to s*xual surrogacy can be an emotionally messy experience. Clients become attached to their surrogates, the objects of their s*xual fantasies, and this can lead to difficulties in transferring feelings to one's spouse or partner," he told Daily Mail.

Padma's response to detractors is: "To the skeptics, I would say that it is giving me a chance to have a life I could only dream of - and what's wrong with that?"



What the opinion of other's about her profession ?

In today times, Most of the fake DOWRY cases worldwide do these type of business, But with a different style only by using DOWRY laws illegally and define as a JUSTICE to meet her or her family members financially needs  ands sucked her husband hard earned money by the way of these laws ?

I said all this, As i too a victim of these type of non-sense DOWRY laws ? 

So i am not against the woman's, But against those women who are making money by the way of these DOWRY laws to EXTORT money from her husband or in-laws and tortured them.

So never accept these type of women in your life, Suggest all of you rather than to marry these type of divorced girls. Be marry with a widow and safe your as well for well-being of that innocent lady too.

Never bow down in front of these type of gang members who used DOWRY laws to extort money only nothing else and wasted other's life.

Betrayed them everytime & never accept or give respect to these type of girls at anytime.

I prayed to god to send these type of girls & her family members to hell who support them in their ill-doings.

Be unite and support each other against the Legal Terrorism and helped each other who are the victime of such type of laws.

Also, Try to provide JUSTICE by any means who are real sufferers of DOWRY or related DV acts.

We are not against womens, But we support those who are right one's too.



Abhinatre Gupt.


 7 Replies

Raj Kumar Makkad (Adv P & H High Court Chandigarh)     16 October 2011

What is the relevance of this story with the present site providing help of some other ttype free of cost?

By this story, I want to convey rather than wasted anyone life for money making by those fake 498a wifes. Do a doctor degree as done by above doctor, This will make them financial gains as well satisfy their se-ual needs at anytime. So no case of impotency/ adultery / Dowry or any related laws will be charged over innocent gentlemans or husbands. All this make them financially strong and their business legally in India too. Also everyone will be happy after this. So I post this story for those ladies who used such type of laws for money extortion only. Regards, Abhinatre Gupt.

Sanjeev (Lawyer)     16 October 2011

@ Abhinetre- you are mistaken to assume that women marry to extract money from their husbands.

No women will like to spoil their life like this.

I am not a supporter of 498A but the reason for filing to get out of a failed marriage. This is suggested to be the best option by some legal advisors to get out of the situation at the earliest with decent compensation. But this is not the intention at the time of entering into marriage relationship.

Husbands dont deserve 498A as such cruelty is normally not done that would attract 498A charge but to consolidate I would still say no women would be wanting to spoil her life for money.

Its suffering on both sides no one gains from litigation only the lawyers do. A good social life is what is required at teh end of the day may be you would be successfull professionally and financially but unless a good family life you remain unsatisfied.

As per me the cases you are facing are still different you are still unmarried you can start afresh and these cases can go on side by side.

Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     17 October 2011

Frankly I do not approve of this doctor's approach to heal patients.Rather ridiculous and cheap!!


Does it mean that s*x therapy provoided by s*xologists in India,which is benefitting so many is a hoax?



Is he talking abouy Swamy Nityanand?

N.K.Assumi (Advocate)     02 March 2012

Rajnesh Guru reincarnation.

Naim (Clerk)     02 March 2012

No where i see a Former Management Consultant trained by the International Professional Surrogate Association to be called as Doctor here....No way in any form whatso ever to be called as Doctor....

Thx & Regards

Dr. Naim

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