Should I divorce my husband/ wife ?
I do not know.
Your advocate definitely does not know.
Your parents too do not know.
Nobody knows the answer to this question of yours.
Only YOU and GOD know the answer.
Only if your INNER VOICE keeps telling you day in and day out that you need to
divorce your life-partner, should you choose to divorce.
But to listen to your INNER VOICE, you must let go of your NEGATIVE EGO that
blinds your eyes to REALITY.
Instead of tuning in to your own inner voice, you reach commercial spots of advocates, counsellors etc who
see YOUR LIFE from their perspective and tend to adopt an approach suited to THEIR LIFE and try to SQUEEZE your
life to fit into their approach to life.
So, in addition to breaking, you also get mentally injured heavily.
So, invest more efforts in moving away from your own NEGATIVE EGO to see REALITY and make a GOOD DECISION instead of
investing efforts in locating an advocate/ counsellor/ etc etc and MOVE FAR AWAY FROM REALITY and jump into a FAULTY DECISION that
leaves you MENTALLY CRIPPLED for a LIFE-TIME or very long periods of time of precious life.
In Bangalore, the district consumer forum, the mediation centre and the family courts are
located in close proximity to each other.
As you pass by the family court-halls or wait for an advocate there, you get to hear strange conversations.
One woman fighting a divorce case, tells her husband's friend
' I DO NOT MIND GIVING MYSELF AS A WHOLE TO MY ADVOCATE.
All that I want is a RELEASE from that man whom you refer to as my husband '.
Hmmm...I had never heard such a one-liner.
I decided to pen it here for the benefit of all.
We all know that society is filled with vultures out to devour your career or family or both.
Now, what to say of such foolish women ?
Even if you were to be desperate, how vulgar can you get and how low can you stoop ?
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET DIVORCED, STOP ABUSING IN PUBLIC.
GET DONE WITH DIVORCE IN A DIGNIFIED WAY and GO HOME.
The walls of your home are your BEST AUDIENCE in matters of your PERSONAL LIFE.