Seeking divorce after 20 years. in love with another man

Mr. 498a fighter... You are insulting her name now... All fingers of one hand are not of the same length...

I am not insulting her i told maximum... and sir see koi apne bacche ka naam ravan nahi rakhata , jab pran villian the to us period me kisi ne apne bacche ka naam pran nahi rakha tha. i mean to say ek koi galti karta hai to sab par doubt jata hai ,

You had a bitter experience with your wife kavita but that doesnt mean all kavitas are the same...

yes i have bitter experience but by the way i also have brother sister relation with  girl having name kavita

You better please feel sorry for what you said on this thread itself... How on earth can you predict one's nature when you havent met her yet ?
no need to say sorry for this kavita as she already  on wrong track on every way either emotional or moral or by indian culture contex,

i beg  sorry if you have any kavita and its hurts you,
she started a forum to ask for help and not to get unsulted okay....

her thread is itself insulting to all can you imagine a girl after 20 years of marriage life having son and daughter going to break the familiy only because of pleasure enjoyment...

Some say indian citizens have started becoming broad-minded....

i would like to say such broad minded people better they play a game of wife swaping, sister swaping daughter swaping and again then need broad mentality then go for mother swaping , and broad minded people will clap over such.

But i really dont think people think out of the box... 

specify the criteria of inbox and out of box according to you,according to us we all follow indian tradition and we favor " pati vrata nari" and this is our inbox attitue

She married a man for 20 years and compromised all the tym but she might have neva got love from him and that is the only reason she saw love and affection in her bf and now she wanna stay with him for the rest of her life...

why now she realize after 20 yrs of marriage why not before just after 1yr now this much time she suffered let for more few year she keep mum for the sake of son daoughter and family reputation from boths side means from her parent and from her in laws then she will search she surely get a boy of 15 years. who satisfy her till her death and also to her dead body.

There is nothing wrong in it at all dude.... My piece of advise to you mr. 498a, please start thinking out of the box...

i will come out of box if people ,and also those who are suggesting me to become broad minded start sharing their wives ,sister and daughter to me or to any one and they come here " aur seena thok kar bole hum apni patni, beti , bahono ko swap karte hai hum broad mindded people hai , hum out of box people hai ab aap ko bhi advise kar sakte hai ki aap bhi hamre jaise broad minded bano."

if you were in her case,

if i were in her case i will keep mum, or enjoy secereately but not ask anybody like this but thank god i am not kavita and also being a man i still keeping mum infront of my wife so you can say me i am like this kavita husband and thats why i told maiximum kavita aisi hi hoti ya unko hum jaise pati milte hai jo ghar bachane ke liye , indian culture ko family ko save karne ke liye apna muh band rakhte hai jinko braod minded log daboo kahte hai.

you neva know even you might have done the same thing what she did...

i never do like her as i told above, my wife is not with me since last two still i never thought of another girl

Best of luck and may god bless you...
thank you because i realy need gods blessing and people like me always need god blessing

give best luck to lady like kavita and braod minded people so that they come out more out ot the box.

thank you keep replying this will guide all , family savers family lover and not to family borkers.