Respected lawyers and people out der,
I request you all to advice me on getting married to my guy, without notice to our parents.
This requirement is basically because of recent conditions at our family sides.
We both are Hindu and belong to same caste. We are in love with each other since many years now. The wait was due to completion of my studies. Both of our parents know about our relationship. and since 2yrs both our parents had agreed for the marriage. He residing outside India .
Recently we were all deciding for the wedding to be in month of June. But in the mean time, there were some objections at his side for this proposal. only the dates were taken at my parents end.
Now, everything is on hold.
BUT, due to some documents work, and my visa purposes, we need to get married in June.
And, now we dont have enough time to convince or wait for the things to settle and Also we cant risk, at the time being, as things can even get worse.
So, we have decided to get married through Arya Samaj. Basically ,we want the dates to be obtained with all the processing done , so that he can come just prior to the wedding , and then make it to my visa and take me along with. He is coming for only a period of 15days.
I have queries regarding this method of wedding.
1) Is it possible me, only the bride, alone to go and put forth the application for wedding?
2) Does arya samaj wedding is possible without prior notice to parents?
3) if in any case, application can not be processed without the groom's physical presence, then what would be the best way for us, as he can only come for a period of 15 days ?
I would appreciate your valuable advice. thanks.