NATARAJAN IYER (Proprietor) 22 April 2016

Impotence as a charge

Often I see the father of the girl and her advocate issue this line, tauntingly.

‘ Sir, that fellow is impotent sir. My innocent daughter’s marriage is unconsummated. ‘

I would often wonder how tough it should be for the Man to counter the charges of Impotence.

That is a charge directly beneath the belt.

So, what is the solution ?

MEDICAL EXAMINATION.

Let him undergo a medical examination and prove his potence.

But let her too undergo a medical examination.

If he has to be shamed, she too should not be spared.

If he is indeed impotent, her virginity would remain intact, is it not ?

Even if it is argued that the hymen tear can happen due to multiple reasons such as vigorous exercise,…etc etc etc, medically it would be possible to say whether the virginity is intact or not.

Medically it should also be possible to say if hymen tear is due to s*xual inter-course or otherwise.

Atleast, s*xual intercourse could be proven.

If proven and if a charge of impotence is attempted to be established but the medical records speak to the contrary, then the direct question would be

‘ Is she into an adulterous relationship ? If not, how did her virginity vanish ? ‘

With pre-nuptial agreements being discussed on one hand and the negative ego of the women and her family on the rise, with every passing day and governmental laws aiding the mischievous women, it is high time that Men, especially the men from good families, devise methods to avoid the women and their families from trapping the men and their families.

If Men do not learn to counter the tricks of women and their families, soon enough we might see many men draped in sarees and pregnant with her child.

Even to visualize such a scene in the mind, with men draped in sarees and pregnant with her child ( through some advanced medical possibility in the future ), it is shocking enough and repulsive.

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Hi Mr Iyer,

Nice to see you again.

Impotence is barely a charge, why?

Women who cannot adjust with the husband and his baggage (his parents, his brothers or sisters living in joint family accomodation) will somehow or the other get irritated to the core plus the already existent irritation created by nature in form of menstruation, leads a woman to run back to her dads house and sit there, the best reason she can give is, husband is impotent so she finds no other reason best enough to shelter her act of abandoning husband without any cause, people ask why you came back to your dads house, and they do nothing but lie, some keep lying on and on, some lie only once..:MY HUSBAND IS IMPOTENT: thereby shutting mouths of anybody in the society who would want to ask why they came back from their husbands house.

Women lie, I dont know why even today. They learn to lie even before they learn to speak.

In court no women will tell truth that she could not adjust or cope with the circumstances at husbands place as her upbringing was not such that she could cope with family problems.

The words "torture" are used freely in describing their incapability of coping with circumstances when they are at the marital home, in any matrimonial case.

But impotence of husband tops them all.

Women take advantage of the fact as Mr TGK Reddi has described above and simply term man as impotent to get away from family responsibilities.

It is such a shameful thing which women resort to. No women is impotent and no man is impotent, doctors know all this, but what to do? They too lie like women do.

People confuse themselves with fertility and potency, a man or a woman can get aroused by touch or by sight, but its all up there in the head, a wife might not be able to arouse husband, and vice versa, there are many factors to arousal.

If concieving is talked about, then come fertility issues, like sperm count or not being able to concieve.

The best way to disprove such, is by taking mutual consent divorce and remarrying and having kids of their own, perhaps confirm with DNA test WRT potency.

Once again appreaciate views of Mr TGK Reddi am honoured to read your comments.

NATARAJAN IYER (Proprietor) 22 April 2016

@ Helping Hand

But for a man, it is a serious charge.

Playing with a man's mind is a dangerous thing to attempt and that is exactly what these women are doing with full passion, in today's society.

When it would explode, God alone knows.

If that happens and women are back to the confines of four walls, just doing work-at-home jobs and earning to support the family without being permitted to step out of the house, that would be a reverse-engineered-regressive but self-created disaster for women.

They seem to be provoking men way too far and in recent times the charm is absent on the faces of many women.

That evil look, that scheming mind, the dirty tricks,...etc etc negativity is writ large on their faces.

As they say, ' face is the index of the mind '.