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I Want to Save my Marriage

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Lokendra Soni (PA)     20 July 2011

Hi,

I read your problem.  I think just you should talk to your husband alongwith your relatives and your husband's relatives.  Before taking any legal action against your husband, just talk to him and try to convience him and ask what is the actual problem and try to solve the issues between you and your husband.  I think this will work and you can save your marrige.

Regards

Lokendra

niranjan (civil practice)     20 July 2011

No, you are in prohiibited degree.

T.K.VENKATARAMAN (Advocate)     20 July 2011

Victim bhai in Allahabad there are plenty of advocates. Sit with one of them ,dicuss your complete problem and then take his/her advice. Without knowing your problem completely how can anyone give a proper solution ?


(Guest)

Dear Sister,

You file a suit / petition for restitution of conjugal rights against your husband in Indian Court of Law and get the summons issued to your husband and take necessary steps to compel him to come down to your place. If you have got any further doubts, you can call me up on my cell number found in my website.

With Best Regards,

S.JEEVAGAN,

Advocate & Legal Consultant,

Madurai. https://www.jeevaganadvocate.com/

Ms Liberal (others)     21 July 2011

As he has already serve you the notce for Divorce and whether the Application for divocrce has been filed by him in Indian Court at your place of matri home -New Delhi?

One side you want to save your marraiage by not giving divorce and on the otherside you want to screw up his career and also want to file the case against his mother in law under DV Actt? -Right

If your marraige survives its more than the hell if u do two things simultanoeusly.

Don't think of today but also for tommorrow. Do you think any reasoanble person whose carrer has been spoiled by another and also implicate his maother will shower flowers on her?? NOT AT ALL ALL

As said earlier you wnat to lit the home or Burn the home choice is yours

Before proceeding further or any other legal recourse try to reconcile this matter through his relatives who are in India and take the hep of NGOS and try to locate his place of work for telephoni ccounselling etc

If nothing works file the case under RCR only if your problems are genuine . MAKE USE OF LAWS WHEN OTHER REMEDIES GET FAILED

if they have put the charged for mental illness then onus is on their side . There may be chances for reconciliation if they failed to get divorce but any foolish step created by you mat land into troubles which you realised lateron


(Guest)

If you take legal recourse,in my opinion RCR is not thr right way.It's time consuming.DV Case will be right for you.

 

Meanwhile hire a lawyer.He's already filed a case,and if you waste any more time,he'll get an ex-parte.


(Guest)
Originally posted by :Victim
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It's very rare to see someone on LCI website  who is really interested to save her marriage.

 
"

 

 

My reply-


Victim bhai,many LCI women in the past have talked about saving their marriage.If you find time,go through all family forums threads,Then you will know.


 


Victim's counter reply-


I am talking about no. of people in general willing to save marriage........it's not about men vs women i don't even want to start on that coz if i start i won't stop and u knw tht. Please read my post thoroughly before posting any unnecessary comments.

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You suddenly changed your statements when I said that many LCI women are interested in saving marriages.Your above statements are a proof of the same,which I have displayed above..

 

Yeah please go on and do not stop.I have underestood your nature already.

**Victim** (job)     21 July 2011

@ Princess where do you see that i have changed my statement.


It's very rare to see someone on LCI website  who is really interested to save her marriage.

this was my original comment

do u see i have addressed any gender specifically ?

 

Victim bhai,many LCI women in the past have talked about saving their marriage.If you find time,go through all family forums threads,Then you will know.


this is ur post if u notice in ur post i have highlighted "women" which was addressed by you. I never mentioned any gender in my prior comments.

Yeah please go on and do not stop.I have underestood your nature already.

Once again we are not here to judge on each other's nature rather then that helping Author of this post would be much better.

sangeeta (lecturer)     21 July 2011

advacate number---09811277266  mr.sandeep bhalla,         adv in supe court  u can contact 

 

i hope , he will give u all ur anquiries, regarding your  problam

sangeeta

Ramanathan G (Independent practice)     17 August 2011

Sir, 1. Restitution of Conjugal Rights is the only legal solution. However simply by relying upon the Court, you can never save your married life. Nothing is written about Children. 2. Nothing is written about how the happiness in the married life came to an end. It is difficult to believe that, a person who had been happy to go away from his mother to another appartment, and to take you Abroad will suddenly change his life. 3. In today’s India, females have upper hand in Courts – many a ladys know about it and spoil their life. It is possible that, instead of retaining happiness in your life, you started to spoil the relationship by taking entirely Legally permissible grounds, pretending illness etc. When he ditched you, you do not want to do any such things thus even Dowry Articles Recovery proceedings had not commenced till now. If you had ever commenced that, he might have to come to India and return all articles. Your expert Advocate might have trapped even the child in the womb of Husband’s family. However where the wife had misused that weapon prior to separation, do not go for that, because, only that Dowry harassment word had spoiled her life – after all every one know that, very easily the process of law do not function even when a real victim want to start. 4. Please note, above para is not to condemn you unheard. Please be honest to yourself, and even a Post Card will be sufficient to get your husband back. But at first you may have to eat a lot of things you told in the past – which resulted in present Desertion from his side. 5. Wish you all the best. G. Ramanathan, Advocate (D-1282/2000). Ramanathan2108@gmail.com

Aishwarya (Teacher)     18 August 2011

@ dee

dont take ur marriage to court or lawyers and police ..IF AT ALL YOU ARE DETERINDED TO SAVE IT..

 collect some money you go to meet him up for yourself with some elder and experienced realtive connected to both families..

NO LAW CAN EVER BRING BACK THE WARMTH OF REALTIONSHIP PLZ REMEMBER THIS FACT. it will only furthur insinuate the process case over case..

talk to him ur mother in law too, be the most idealist women you can be for them if you intend to save your marraige..he has already made things worse by serving you the notice but its you who wishes to reamin with him intact..no court can put you in his home if he doesnt want you..its best to talk to him land on his door and politely handle the situation with talks..

and if still things dont work out ..plz plz plz amicably sort out your case dont go for any cases..

restore your self respect and honour and have one on one conversation with him.

tell him that you lastly intend to reunite and can bring happiness and dont forgot to be in tune with your mum in law as she is the heart reach out to her for help..chances are less or maybe none but if you wish to save than its worth the hardwork u put in..atleast u did ur karma..

let it be his misfortune if he doesnt realise some day or the other he will sooner or later..

sabko yehi bhugatna hai aur bhagwan sab dekhta hai toh daro nahi kisi se..apne mein sacche raho aur sabko maaf karte jao. jo hogaya ussse aage bado ..life is not all revenge..

its better even best revenge if you restart your life again and learn to live well..

duniya mein acche logo ka akaal nahi padgaya..bas jabtak tum sahi ho koi sahi mil hi jaata hai..

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Aishwarya (Teacher)     18 August 2011

am sorry there have been some word errors in typing so ive reposted..plz bear along..thnx

@ dee

dont take ur marriage to court or lawyers and police ..IF AT ALL YOU ARE DETERMIND TO SAVE IT..

 collect some money you go to meet him up for yourself with some elder and experienced relatives connected to both families..

NO LAW CAN EVER BRING BACK THE WARMTH OF RELATIONSHIP PLZ REMEMBER THIS FACT. it will only furthur insinuate the process ,case over case..

talk to him ur mother in law too, be the most idealist women you can be for them if you intend to save your marraige..he has already made things worse by serving you the notice but its you who wishes to reamin with him intact..no court can put you in his home if he doesnt want you..its best to talk to him land on his door and politely handle the situation with talks..

and if still things dont work out ..plz plz plz amicably sort out your case dont go for any cases..

restore your self respect and honour and have one on one conversation with him.

tell him that you lastly intend to reunite and can bring happiness and dont forgot to be in tune with your mum in law as she is the heart reach out to her for help..chances are less or maybe none but if you wish to save than its worth the hardwork u put in..atleast u did ur karma..

let it be his misfortune if he doesnt realise some day or the other he will sooner or later..

sabko yehi bhugatna hai aur bhagwan sab dekhta hai toh daro nahi kisi se..apne mein sacche raho aur sabko maaf karte jao. jo hogaya ussse aage bado ..life is not all revenge..

its better even best revenge if you restart your life again and learn to live well..

duniya mein acche logo ka akaal nahi padgaya..bas jabtak tum sahi ho koi sahi mil hi jaata hai..

SANJEEV KUMAR (STUDENT)     18 August 2011

@help urgent

Just calm down. You both are better educated. Many of learned advocate friends have tried to make you client . One "victim" who is member since 30/4/2011 has concluded that this site is useless without going the contents and benefits of this web site and he has conclued in 4 months. I request him to just spend 2 hours daily to know the contents which are highly useful and advocate are helping other advocates by solving their tiklish queries.

Court should not be made first resort to settle the family matters. Now a days courts are highly referring the matters to mediation only.

In my point of view court procedures should be resorted as last resort.

I agree with Raghav and soni. Involve some good common friends and family friends having good mediation skill to sort out the matter out of court. Once you resort the court procedures egos of both will clash. After spending money on saving ego and time you will under stand on repenting on making things worse.

sanjeev

**Victim** (job)     19 August 2011

Originally posted by :SANJEEV KUMAR
"
@help urgent

Just calm down. You both are better educated. Many of learned advocate friends have tried to make you client . One "victim" who is member since 30/4/2011 has concluded that this site is useless without going the contents and benefits of this web site and he has conclued in 4 months. I request him to just spend 2 hours daily to know the contents which are highly useful and advocate are helping other advocates by solving their tiklish queries.

Court should not be made first resort to settle the family matters. Now a days courts are highly referring the matters to mediation only.

In my point of view court procedures should be resorted as last resort.

I agree with Raghav and soni. Involve some good common friends and family friends having good mediation skill to sort out the matter out of court. Once you resort the court procedures egos of both will clash. After spending money on saving ego and time you will under stand on repenting on making things worse.

sanjeev
"

 

@ Sanjeev when did i say that this site is useless ? BTW thanks for your suggestion .....infact this site has helped me a lot and It would have never been possible for me to get familiarised with Indian matrimonial law until i visited this site. I would suggest you not to criticise after i made my conclusion for LCI site.

 

Female Activist (housewife)     19 August 2011

don't put false case.

just put rcr and dv. he would come back


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