i have got married in Feb 2011. It was a love marrige from my husband & arrenged from My side.I m borne & brought up in prosperes family so we were searching such kind of family. My husband told me he earned about 25 laks in abroad & now he is working in MNC with the selery of 45 K. Before marrige whenever my inlaws came to my home they told the dont want anything & they will keep me like a pricess even after marrige.even though my parents gifted me 21 tolas of gold which my inlaws had taken just on the second day of my marrige.
But after marrige i got to know my husband show me a fake documents of his salery & he is not working any whereHe is expert in making fake documents & also got to know that in the past my husbad had a physical relation with his mail friends so he always forced me to do unnaturaal s*x.& my inlaws started the dowery harresment.They started to treat me like a kamvali by telling that "If you will not work than how will we cover our marrige expendetures.so you will have to do all the house hold works & job for us" they were not spending any mony for me even from my selery.Even after marrige my parents are spending for my expendetures.
& my Fil always touches me in the bad maners , he always kiss on my hands.& talks & behave in a velger way.these all things are too long.He was harresing me in s*xual way.When i make an objection about this he clearely told me " He will never change.I will have to get adjusted by this if i want to live there."
My husband loved me for my qualification as he wanted to use me to go to abroad by PR.Thats y he forced me to study related studies.as he dont like to study & dont like to work in india.I spoiled a year of my life by studing harder for my husbands future.Even though my file had been rejected.
AS i have not done any hard work before marrige, i was getting ill day by day I lost my weight from 54 kgs to 42 kgs. just in 6 months cause of the hardwork & mental tourture.& after getting rejection of PR file. they have started tonting me for my slim body, my look,my illness& also for not giving money in laks to them.
When i made a voice agaist all of this & told them" I will not live like a kamvali as they are crorepati & can afford 1000 rs for a kamvali.My Fil Has to respect the relation of Dil & Fil.& i will come back only after my husband wiill start a job.& i will not hear any word for mental torture."
thn My husband replied me he can get 1000 girls like me but can not get a 2-3 crores property of his father.so i'll have to live the life according to them or have to give him a divorce without any alimony.I refused the both the choices of him.
After my this words They made devorce papers without any alimony by blakemailing me for my certificates.i gave them my voting card to make documents against of my certificates.& after getting my certies i told them to not to sign papers.after that my husband warned me if i will not sign the papers he wiil take a negative steps against me.& he also told me that they will never give me my jewelery back.
Even though i have not signed papers not livin at my inlaws home.
My husband is not working any where. & whatever bugs he had earned in the past are on his fathers name.so can i ask compansation or maintainence from his father as he is the second resposible when husband is not earning or not able ot working.?
Is there any way to find out the past selary slips from abroad as i know his NI no. & company name?
I also want to file a case which is better DV case or 498 A for doing a cheating ?
my father spent about 5 laks on our marrige & gave 6 laks of gold in todays price. now his business running in the loss & it is at the stage of closing I have a one sister more.so i can not let them to go without paying compansation for spoiling my life.
so how much compansation can i ask for dowery harresment, mentally harresment, s*xual harresment , physical harresment & financil haresment.?
If they r ready to let me live life like a human.I m ready for that but i will still ask compansation for the harresments they have done to me, & getting my stridhan bake.
Pls Advise Me .I m not greedy but i can not let anyone to spoile my life.