I don't want divorce

you have written two lines---same lines--- Can court grant him divorce without my wish---

you say you are husband but him means whom ? are you actually the wife coming to this forum as husband to find out what all he can do ??? -----------

OK, even if you are the wife, listen....no one will advise in detail....

FIRST GATHER ALL EVIDENCE FOR ADULTERY --- HIRE A PRIVATE DETECTIVE AND GATHER ALL PHOTOS AND VIDEO ( COURT NEEDS VIDEO PROPERLY USING DIGI CAM AND THEN RECORD IT ON A CD OR DVD )----- WITHOUT THIS YOU CANNOT PROVE ADULTERY ----

IF ADULTERY IS PROVEN, YOU DO NOT NEED TO PAY MAINTENANCE AND THAT FELLOW OF 25 YRS AGE CAN BE JAILED ----

IF ADULTERY IS PROVEN YOU WILL EASILY GET DIVORCE --- BUT IF YOU WANT TO LIVE WITH SUCH A WIFE EVEN AFTER ADULTERY, COURT WOULD JUST ADJOURN IT OFF AND YOU CAN CONSULT AN ADVOCATE ON LEGAL PROCEDURE TO WITHDRAW THE PETITION OR LEGAL BRIIEF

________________ OK, NOW FOR THE ACTION PART ______________________________

THIS IS PSYCHOLOGICAL GAME AND NOT LEGAL GAME --- THEY ARE PLAYING PSYCHOLOGICAL GAME WITH YOU --- IT IS PURELY MIND GAME ----

LIKE THIS, MANY FAMILIES OF WOMEN HAVE MADE MEN AS NAPUNSAKS.---- 

The Truth is that many women and their families suffer from PSYCHIATRIC ILLNESS.....

This the judges and advocates know very well ----- common man also is slowly realizing this-----

why do you want to give your head to a mad animal ? -----

Yes, there is a Solution. But I do not know if you can do that. ------

Because it is very difficult. Even once if you miss it, gone case. All efforts waste.-----

But let me tell you that Solution. Try it and see.-----

SILENCE.....Yes, Silence is the Solution --- CONTINUOUSLY for 9 months ----

What you have to understand here is that your wife and her family is playing PSYCHOLOGICAL Games and NOT LEGAL Games ------

So, when you are silent without bothering, their psychological game turns upon themselves and they will start wondering in curiosity why you are all silent ----

so, YOU WILL RECEIVE A PHONE CALL --- even during the phone call, remain silent.--- let them speak and just answer with one word or one line ---

_________ BIGGEST PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICK IS TO MAKE YOUR CHILDREN SPEAK TO YOU OVER PHONE AND RUB YOUR EMOTIONS

---- THEN TOO REMAIN SILENT AND IMAGINE YOU ARE SPEAKING TO SOME CHILD IN SOCIETY AND SPEAK NEUTRALLY AND HAPPILY BUT DO NOT COMPROMISE ----

WHEN THEY FAIL IN THIS TRICK, THAT IS WHEN THEY WILL SERIOUSLY START FOLDING THEIR BAG OF TRICKS AND THINK OF STOPPING TO PLAY GAMES _____

BUT IF YOU GET ANGRY, GONE .... ALL EFFORTS WASTE --- THINK YOU ARE IN MILITARY TRAINING AND REMAIN PATIENT --- AT THE END OF IT, YOU WILL HAVE DOUBLE STRENGTH ----

THEN THEY WILL TRY ALL PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS LIKE PROVOKING ----Even then, remain silent.----

Then they will come and start raising same topic of OLD ISSUES again ---Then too, remain silent...

CLEAN THE ROOM AND NEATLY ARRANGE ALL PAPER DOCUMENTS AND RECORD PHONE CALLS AND REMAIN SILENT----

I KNOW IT IS DIFFICULT, BUT IMAGINE THAT YOU ARE ON TOP OF A MOUNTAIN WHERE SPEAKING IS OF NO USE.....THEN WHAT WILL YOU DO ? SAME SILENCE ADOPT HERE ALSO --- MAXIMUM THREE YEARS --- IT IS BETTER TO DO IT -------YOU WILL HAVE LOT OF POSITIVE EFFECT ----

Then one fine day, they will come and leave your wife and children with you.-------

or

They will move for legal action.-----

IF THEY LEAVE YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN, FOR ANOTHER 3 MONTHS, REMAIN SILENT BUT TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM ----

THEN THEY WILL COME TO YOUR TERMS AND LISTEN TO YOU ----

IF THEY MOVE FOR LEGAL ACTION, UNDERSTAND THAT SUCH A WOMAN AND FAMILY ARE NOT WORTH HAVING AS WIFE AND IN-LAWS.....

LET THE LEGAL MATTER GO ON --- IT WILL BE IN YOUR FAVOUR --- DO YOUR DUTY TOWARDS YOUR CHILDREN

--- MARRY AGAIN OR HAVE A LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP WITH A GOOD PARTNER AND ENJOY THIS ONE BEAUTIFUL LIFE

---- EVEN GREAT SAINTS ARE WORRIED " AFTER THIS BIRTH, WHICH BIRTH, WE DO NOT KNOW...IT CAN BE HUMAN BIRTH OR DOG BIRTH ...etc "

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Live this BEAUTIFUL LIFE WITH DIGNITY AND SELF-RESPECT INTACT ----