I am a 32 year old married. Basically i belongs to Bihar but working in Bangalore in Private Firm. We both myself and my wife are Hindu. We got married with Hindu rituals in 2012. After that we registered our marriage in Bangalore Registrar.
I will come directly to the point. My wife is very short tempered and antonym (Ziddi) in nature. She will do what she wants wheather it is a small thing or a big issue. As i mentioned that this is the 3rd year of after marriage i used to ignore all her these small/big things. I complained or just discussed about this with her elder brother too. He said Boss this is your broblem now. Both of you need to short it out. Her brother also accepted her antonym nature. Last 2.5 years there were many fight happens between me and my wife. Due to her this nature all my friends stopped coming to house but all in touch with me via phone.
Many times i compleined about her to my parents and her brother. All try to cool down her and convince me that you have to stay with her only. And i was fine with this till 4 months before.
4 months before my mother got admitted in hospital seriouse case (Some Brain Operation). Now she recovered but needs some 24 hours acompany for next 2-3months. Initially 3 months i tool WFH option and stay with her. Now i asked her to stay with her then she is denyind and passing many wrong words for my parents. Last 1 month i am with my parents at my native and she is in Bangalore. I told her on phone i planning to resign but she knows i will not resign.
After thinking alot on my 2.5 yrs marride life i decided to go for Divorce. She is well educated and will get job easily. As per my info she got job also in Bangalore.
Some of the main points for divorce are
she is insisting me to let her give money. Once force fully she asked to transfer Lakh of rupees. I transfered too to get peace in life. Its a online transfer i have proofs.
trying to distance me from my parents by not letting me meet my parents
lot of arguments and unnecessary quarrels
she is very very short tempered and antonym
never lets me focus at my work, she calls me atleast 10 times a day inspite of requesting her not to do. And finally do fight with me in night. Neighours also knew this.