hi,i find that my husband is having an extra marital affair and carrying on with a girl who is half his age.this is goin on now since 3 years and im a little worried about the security of me and my children.we own a flat (our only asset)which is in joint names of me and my husband and the papers are with the bank as he had taken a loan and most of the installments are paid. what are the steps i should take if i want the papers to be with me.also,he has been presurrising me to sell d flat..can he sell the flat without my signature or by forging my signature if he gets the papers..and also what are the other steps i shud take ...Pls guide as i would be very thankful
If flat is purchased by both , the ROR will contain your name also.he cannot sale your share,nobody will purchase his 50%share as it is undivided share.If you are residing in the same flat you need not worry of flat.
thanks chetan..i am nt sure whethr i would continue ..but what are the other precautionary steps to be taken if i want the papers with me as it is pledged with the bank now.also what if he plans to run away,so what do i have to do if i dont want that to happen..is there any action i can take against that girl ..does it prove worthwhile to hire a detective?? plz guide
No action, you can take on his mistress. Alteast your residence is safe and approach court for separation and maintenance. Even if he runs away the flat is in your name and nothing he can do.But your monthly income source will be cut-off, which you can seek through courts.
You can proove adultery and seek separation or divorce or whatever you feel like ( lawyers will tell you, but I wont)