Ramanathan G
(Independent practice)
28 August 2013
Sir,
to help you, i will develop this point you wrote:- " false statements of my wife". Also about Legal problems you face.
In India, there are a large number of cases of elopment, rape, adultery etc. Everywhere the consent of female is discussed. Hon'ble Mr.Justice VR Krishna Iyer (retired) is about 100 years old, and in his judgments you can find the proverb: "Kissing every flower and changing every hour is not permissible", to deal with Service and Labour Matter cases, to speak about Judicial Precedence. Evey Sanyasis (alive and died) faces and faced s*xual allegations.
When i was getting training in the courts, after doing LL.B and getting sanad, in the Tis Hazari Courts, Delhi; on a particular day, the Presiding Officer did not come. One Clerk of another Advocate told me: "Come, let us take Date/NDOH fromt the Reader of the Court", Reader was a man aged 50 years. Steno of that court was a girl aged 22 years. I told that Clerk/ Munshi: "You take Date from the Reader, i will take Date from the Steno". No one objected to this comment, including the Judge when he came back to do duty next day. This happened on 2001.
However, in your particular case, (also similar Family matter case between wife and husband), the question arise in our mind: "whether this woman have no s*xual urge - whether this man have no s*xual urge". However once an Advocate is appointed, it is dangerous for the Judge to speak to a party directly. In fact, in India, the duty of the Advocate is to do Lobbying, in which what order his client want, he should procure from the Judge, Opposite Party's Advocate, Court staff etc.
When you will move Mental health Act application, the Psychiatrist can speak direct to your wife. In return she will also file one each Mental Health Act case against all your family members. We the legal people will be able to at least read about why there is "stone" in your mattress (term copied from Womens Era of 1993).
To give another example of 2001, once i entered the court of a beautiful girl as Magistrate. I worked in the IAF for 10 years, thus my leg movement, with Shoes, create different sound. She just stared at me to find the new person (myself), found happy that, i wear Advocate uniform, just removed her spectacle, wiped one of her eyes (= winking at new figure in her court).
Rest all things - the lies told by both the parties, excesses done by the relatives - everything will be forgotten, if the Psychiatrist can remove Rock from your mattress.
In India, rarely you can get advice about SEXLIFE from an Advocate or Doctor, face-to-face. At America, i read that, once a Doctor prescribed having s*x as a cure for back-ache and he faced Compensation suit, because, the patient thought, the Doctor offered to massage her while having s*x with her.
If you will courageously move Application under MHA with complete truth, the lady Magistrate (who like to wink), the lady Steno (who do not object to giving Date to a young male Advocate) etc will be able to help you to lead a good life; because, besides the vallet/ purse, they too have all female organs of your wife.
(Not read again to correct mistakes).
Today is Sree Krishna Jayanti, I have a daughter aged 7 years, she wear the Dress of Radha and participate in the Rally. In the celebration of 2011, she wear the dress of Krishna, last year she wear the dress of Radha, today also we are preparing her for Radha's dress.
It is expected that, at some part of India, your daughter also must be celebrating the Birthday of Lord Krishna.
Bye.
1.20 pm of 28-8-2013
