i m in wid a boy since 2007 and we got married in temple in 2008 becoz boy's parents were not ready for aour marriage so we did in a temple but unfortunately we did not clicked any picture so i dont have any proof of that.
Opinion: It's matter of proof.......
Only putting vermilion infront of god doesn't make any valid marriage..until or unless witnesses are there,priests are there,homa and saptapadi etc ..are there as read with sec-5 & 7 of HMA 1955.
Even special Marriage Act 1954 needs two different religion and it should be registered.
then what left??......muslim marriage and christain marriage...and I can assume that both doesn't fall under this category.
but the boy's parents did not get ready and made a pressure in the boy the boy again got married under pressure in front of society
Opinion: What pressure????? my dear madam, do your BF cum Husband was an infant or a minor boy that he felt the social pressure from the family??
This is mere an excuse.......!!
Those who love never knows any pressures that's why they are called love bird's
They have their own wings and no confinement could break their relationship is my view.
but i did not know abt that.
Opinion: if you do not know??? then what kind of love was that?????? only for s*xual relation or what???
your husband is getting married to another lady and you were in third world..isn't it?
This is not fair madam,,,if you love anybody then you must be knowing about him and vice versa is the universal truth.
but after marriage he came to know that he can not live with her as he is not able to forget me but he did a mistake and the girl got pregnant and deliverd a boy after 9 months of marriage
Opinion: Wow......your BF cum husband did mistake and that mistake was in form of a cute child imposing his face because he is the father of that child.
And then all of a sudden he realized that he also did a blunder mistake by producing his own child..isn't it??
the day had come when your BF cum Husband get bored from her own legal wife and thinking about his previous s*xual pleasures...and one fine day he missed you and forecasted his lust..
Very nice.....you women only goes around such b*st*rds who are only made to f**ck you and then leave you with all cock and bull stories..and you too believe the same.
but the girl is not mentally fit so they live together only for 2 months and after one year the boy filed the divorce petition and told me that u dont worry i will get divorce and we will be together very soon.
Opinion: Why not??????
This would be a greatest Bollywood love triangular movie as ever based on your true story of love s*x and dokha...
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MCD is the best way to refill the retro moments enjoyed by both of you and no other way because har mod pe khatra hai......Wo toh dono taraf se jayega.
He will be crushed by either end with good number of IPC sections...So,better tell him to part way amicably or not then he must be carrying numerous of stringent proof to get contested divorce that will end only by answering Aghori Baba on this LCI.
but the girl filed the 498a and warned thm to send jail so he has to bring her home back but the girl is not in love wid her and only got married for the money and status.
Opinion: Wow...gr8.. Udhar bhi dhoka idhar bhi dhokha ab pyarr mohabbat me kya rakha.......!!
Let the heaven may fall for his justice.....till then do all Vrats like karvachowth,saath somvari, thursday,satarday and many more to woo the god of s*x & love.
now my problem is that how can i prove my marriage whn i dont have any prove. i have photographs of our honeyomoon but not of marriage.
pls suggest me what should i do .
i am his frist wife but
Opinion: If you were the first wife then can't he had done the same mistake with you what he had done with his legal wedded wife.
If he had produced a child with you then you must be having the most solid proof ...by building the co-relations like ....A & B went to temple on XYZ date to marry, after 1 week A&B both travelled for their honeymoon (show the tickets and snaps of good time)...then after 9 months of such copulation/honeymoon child C has been produced...
Mam,you must had a fit case of making his marriage null and void and sending him good 7 years of jail....ooppsss ,........Iam too rude Naa.
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My sincere advice on your case:-
1. Ask him to take MCD if he is not happy with her via amicable settlement.
2. If not then gather all the proof of mental cruelities as well as desertion whatever done by her wife and file for divorce U/s 13ia and 13Ib or wait for IrBM to come.
3. Till then you both of you think that .......is this real love or just infatuation or back date lust overlapping the present.
4. If yes....then better don't marry it will be again a blinder for both of you.
chalo then you just think and think ......as your time start's now.........!!
regards.
