I need to take further guidance on this issue and want to appraise you and others about few more things. I tried reconciling with my ex-girlfriend but since she was already in a relationship and was physical with this other guy she dint say yes. I came to know abt all this around a year and a half after we officially broke up, the timeline is as follows-
my relation with her was from 2003-2009/ jan 2010 breakup(approx) and she was involved with the other guy from second/third quarter of 2008 till present. I was kept in dark and was cheated from 2008( second/third quarter) till 2009 end after which she told me that she wants to end the relation with me since things are not going well, she did not inform me that she already has a boyfriend and tht she ws using me for this all time. Also one more thing, she in 2006 had another relation with some guy over internet and they became quite close for around 2/3 months, but she informed me about them and then she broke up with this guy and came back to me, but again in 2008 she cheated me.
I have few recordings of her voice which I took recently out of my fear that she would put up false charges against me as I was asking her to meet me and answer all my questions and I called up a lot and msged her a lot regarding the same. However at no point I forced her to do anything which is indecent or which is against law. The voice recording of her I made was to make sure that nothing false from her side can be used against me if I file a case against her, she has clearly said in those recording that I have never ever hit her, or forced her to do anything s*xual against her wish, and that everything between us, the s*xual relation, videos, photos etc was done with mutual consent.
Is this voice recording good enough if she decides to lodge in a false complaint against me as my proof that I havent done anything forcefully? because I am sure if I decide to go ahead and lodge in a complain and file a case against her, she will be guided by that guy or her parents to file a false complain/case against me. Will the voice recordings be good enough to get me out of the false complaints?
I have met with her boyfriend and told him abt all this, I met her mother and told everything which her daughter has been doing, sleeping with two guys etc, but she took it quite well because I think my ex-girl had already made up a story putting me in the negative aspect and hence she dint react much. Now I am thinking of telling her father everything and showing him our photos and apraising him of the entire sh*t which her daughter has done, will this affect negatively in any way against me if I file a case of cheating , fraud and maybe rape on her???????
She has a real bad character and I have come to know about it recently and I can prove that as her once best friend knows everything about her and recently when I spoke to her what my girl has done, she told me a lot about how she was , how she cheated on me earlier and how she lied, her office guy who she has kept on loop, and how she has been playing with 3/4 guys at same time. Now please advise if I can prove with witness and other emails photos etc that her character is not good and I dint knew about it earlier and she has fooled me under the promise of getting married and she kept all these things hidden from me and used me for money, s*x and her fun, will I be able to put up a strong case against her?
One more thing, should I take a written statement from her that I have never hit her, or made her to do anything forcefully and that I have never exploited her s*xually or tried to molest/rape her till now???? I know it would be difficult to get a signed statement from her for this, but I can try or will the recording be enough in which she has agreed that I have never done anything to her against her wish and that till now I havent done anything un-lawful to her??? Please advise, as before I fix up my mind to file a case against her, I need to know for what all she can falsely accuse me of . Also please tell me what counter claims/ false claims can she put on me and for which I will arrange proper evidence before she gets a chance to accuse of of something which I havent done.
I need to also know, if proved that she is of bad character, and that she has cheated me for money , s*x and her fun under false promise of marriage, what kind of punishement she will get? Can I ask the court of law to jail her, as a guy gets jailed for the same?
Also because of her cheating in 2006, I couldnt continue working with my father as it had pyschologically affected me as she made me believe that since I gave more time to my work she went to that guy, this has made me loose such precious time and till date I havent been able to work, I have become more angry, frustated, depressed etc, does all this be used against her in the court of law? as her cheating has negatively affected my growth ???