This may appears to be somewhat soothing. Mother in law get tamper tantrun only when she find that her daughter in law is acting in converse manner which creates tension
I quote various examples responsible for tamper tantum to mother in law
Mother in law says kindly don't enter kitchen without bathing-Daughter in law may be following the same practice in her own home deliberately acted in revere manner
Mother in law says " his son like this dish Kindly make it ...But Daughter in law resist in making it and in front of her husband criticizes the mother in law for not informing that you require those dish and she was not aware of this
Mother in law teach moral ethics but daughter in law follows the reverse principle
Such as putting clothes, domestic chores, regular habits
This can be improved if cordial relations exist between them but the daughter in law always does the reverse things from top to bottom. She may be having intention to create tension at home so ultimately she can break up the relations of her husband with rest of the family members
When the husband despite of this maintain cordial balance with rest of family members and her husband. This again will not be tolerable to her wife she showed protest by not coordinating in his regular activities and rest of his home
The husband slowly slowly understands the psychology of the wife and stated marinating the distance and this is the beginning of the DV/498A STAGE which most of the females have justified in saying that
When the wife left the home, she used to send legal notice about the harassment. When he takes some action for defense the wife under the influence of her parents filed fake 4981-A/DV Act. Do you think that this is justified?
Now the question of dowry , parents in law forces the girl to bring those items such as TV/Refrigerator etc to the groom in order to show this reputation in their society. Whether Grooms were slaves prior to the marriage or they are doing marraige for the sake of this items. Every time they were falsely implicated on the account of this.
Parents spend the money on the daughter spo that they too cand drag hefty money in the name of mainatanace. Kindly see the logic behind this if any groom is earning 4-5 laks per year whether he has grred in the money of his parents in law
Moreover whether they choose respective brides who are stabilised and have good source of income. Whether they are ready to send their daughter who are merely unemployed. It clearly shows that greed is some where hidden in their part
Fianlly the husband has to give permannent alimony in order to get rid of this
After reading this article I am sure that no man will like to marry if he has already anticipated these factors
I am 100% sure that he loves to remain idle rather than facing rest of life in trouble
The husband prior to the marriage was informed by his in laws that her daughter will be adjustable and showed cooperation to the rest of the family members but real face has not been shown to him and this way he thinks that he has been defrauded by his wife in laws in the name of marriage
If such conditions are already explained to man that his wife who has been represented through her father in law, that her daughter has this kind of attitude and will show this kind of behavior. If you are ready then please go ahead for marriage otherwise you may quit
I think the reasonable person will choose what is best for him
KINDLY NOTE I AM UNMARRIED AND LOVE TO REMAIN UNMARRIED AND I WILL NOT BELIEVE IN THIS KIND OF MARRAIAGE. WOMEN LCI MEMBERS ARE WELCOME TO SHOWER ABUSES IF THEY WISH OR WITH ABSURD REMARKS AS THEY LIKE
These are the basis on my own personal experience
I can be wrong at one time but not always time
