The beauty of life is that "It never says anything It just perform it’s work whatever comes under its way". The grudges and Happiness are like two todlers who grows till one not leave this matterialistic world for ever. If I say both are the faces of a coin which is just opposite to the other then I will be not wrong. Here,Husband and wife are to be called as single life with common aim and objective and that is to live life without overlapping each other. The prime focus is to live the life at fullest..
But as one of my above friend has put his contribution alleging that Marriages are a sacred institution it should not be shared or discussed on public forum. It quite obvious to comment such patriarchal phase of marriages where one is husband and other is wife sharing two different doors of life. Here,again I would like to impart the meaning of Marriages which is not a sacred bond but above this when both the spouses are the alumni of same institution carrying the similar thoughts.. .
Marriages are not a Cage where Tota and Maina Both are Fixed together to survive just for the sake of society ,to just entertain the Social families ethics. It’s quite sarcastic as those who are commenting without any suffice on this topic.I Don’t believe in dead marriages and to carry it for the just sake of society. Those who do they are also dead like their marriages. Men and women are made to fullfil each other expectations,needs and values and if any one is not a cordial to share the same feelings and trust to continue this sacred relationship they should be part way amicably rather that just crubbling each other without any sense.
The society and it’s traditions are so biased that A women who want’s to be a free from her dead marriages then also she can’t due to the thoughts of the irritaionale societies. In today’s world a women is neither treated as Goddess nor like a wife and the sole reason goes to the Biased society and their so called partial laws.
I feel ashamed here that a non-living object is divided for their title and rullings but what about humans………is this fare that A society is divided according to caste,creed,customs and traditions and now the only two s*x that male and female has also been divided for the sake of societical and political benefits.
Iam not here to make any differnecs between Man and women but this thread is only about the thoughts of different Man and women on the single cause that is Life..
Women thinks that if her so called husband will not follow her,if he will leave her then she can’t be adjusted in this baseless society who only acts as a rumour mongers and family breakers.
But I have seen many women who believe in themselves,who have dignity in their thoughts,they think that these women are not a parasite whether finanacialy or emotionaly on their husbands and on societies.. That’s why they are called leading womens far ahead than Men.
Life is not a place of experiments where men and women are experimenting on their happiness in lieu of selfishness.I say if one is not happy in a relationship then how could he/she could keep others happy…..Don’t this makes a matter more worst when a man and women are kept intact against their will and happiness to just called as social husband or wife rather than Natural husband and wife…
Just think and think……..because if you are thinking the worst then at some where you are also thinking of right.
