HOW DIVORCE MAKES YOU MUCH STRONGER AND GIVES MANY MORE TO..

Social activist and ESIS Legal Consultant (everysufferer isasaviour@gmail.com)

When you're going through divorce, you have to trust that living alone will eventually start to feel normal. You'll get used to walking through the front door and not having to shout, "Hey, I'm home!" You'll feel confident heading to dinner parties and events sans spouse -- and you won't feel the need to explain why he or she is missing to every person you run into.
And with time, you might even start to realize you've not only gotten used to life after divorce, you're a better, more resilient person because of it. 
Many people shared their view and stated as how many ways they became stronger after divorce. Read their responses below, then head to the comments and tell us how splitting up made you a stronger person.

 

READ COMPLETE ARTICLE AND SHARE YOUR VIEWS AS WE NEED INDIAN VIEWS TOO ON DIVORCE:

HOW DIVORCE MAKES YOU MUCH STRONGER AND GIVES MANY MORE TO THE LIFE.....

 
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hi sufferer.. have you got divorce? or still fighting?

 
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Dear...

 

no words for your great work to help the sufferers from so called bull sh*t wife. 

 

GOD BLESS YOU WITH HIS CHOICEST BLESSINGS..

 

KEEP IT UP ...THANK YOU VEERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY MUCCHH FOR ALL YOUR EFFORTS ON INFORMATION..

 
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Dear Friend

All your findings after divorce which made you to introspect what you are all need not have to be learned in such a hard way i.e. getting married facing differences with the spouse, so many things can learnt either from book or the good teacher of life i.e.society. As you wanted know about India. Till Indian was ruled by Britishers no one is aware about divorce. The divorce act is the gift of Britishers given to Indians, otherwise Indians are more tolerant, accommodating, adjusting type in their personal life as well others in the society. Now with the invent of internet knowledge and western culture, in India also this divorce culture is slowly gaining importance without understanding the realities. In western countries after enjoying and moving with a female for some time, to give legal acceptability for their children the male and female get married. In India even now as per latest Supreme Court Judgment any pre-marital s*xual relationship is an offence.

Still Indians believe in a longer married life and they so easily do not go or prefer for divorce.

 
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Social activist and ESIS Legal Consultant (everysufferer isasaviour@gmail.com)

Dear sir/Madam,

You may be interested to read the following,

just a click away to know my view on Divorce:

 

http://everysuffererisasaviour.blogspot.in/2013/10/is-this-not-divorce-better-than-daily.html

 


 
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you still not replied to my query sir??

 
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Social activist and ESIS Legal Consultant (everysufferer isasaviour@gmail.com)

@ Fighting for your Brother,


A cancer doesn't recover so quickly even after it's remedy.....


(A wicked wife is like a cancer in your body which will kill you or it will take time to cure, if you go for remedy)


So in India contested Divorce cum marital cancer treatment is something like getting an oasis in a Barren desert.

Due to 1 km/1 year speed of Indian Judiciary,,:D which is so fast that an average contested divorce goes for min.2-3 years at lower court.



Those who never bow down against exorbitant  settlement will surely make a mark ahead...

Because,

For woman age is the crucial factor in marital disputes where husband is hell bent not to live with her...!!!


and for such husbands divorce is not a par for enjoying freedom because divorce is only a piece of paper whereas real and natural divorce occurs much before when two hearts are not compatible for each other with suffering clouding at each second.


PS: I will certainly inform you first when I will be completely freed from such marital cancer.

 

regards,

(ESIS)










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The author seems to be very much bent upon over the issue.  It may be noted that there are plenty of women victims who even after approaching the courts are not meted out with proper justice due to the husband's influence, arrogance and many more facts.  What is the solution for those innocent women.  I have incidences of husbands managing to serve the notice/summons to the wife who is living together in the same house, by forgery or other means, get an exparte decree of divorce from the court, not informing the wife about such divorce until the appeal is barred by limitation, after that kick the pathetic women out of their house, marry and settle down with another lady.  This happened with my own client for whom I am still fighting for the last one year or more.  However, I appreciate your efforts for some good information.


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Social activist and ESIS Legal Consultant (everysufferer isasaviour@gmail.com)

Dear Adv. Kalaiselvan,


Sir, Thanks for your comment which is neither rationale nor generic,it seems that you are highly compassed with your clients case which is the negligence of the woman and nothing else.If you are standing here to promote biased laws,then sorry I am not the part of you.If you are talking about the 0.001% of the negligence cases of women who are trapped in their own women friendly country progressive in all biased law due to the lackness of their own part.

 

If you are concentrated of my hell bent issue then I am very much correct here to familiarize you the following even though you are lawyer..and I am extremely apologize for this.,


In India there is no law which is made to protect Men from violence of Women..but for women there are Exclusive weapons which they use like having a paani poori at nearest street stall:

 

1.498A/DVA2005--For false dowry and domestic violence

 

2.False Rape case and U/s 375/376

 

3.504 -Insult and breach of peace which is highly used by women.

 

4. 406- which is highly used by women to claim false assets and articles.

 

5. 354/509- outrage and molestation against women

 

6. 377- for false unnatural s.e.x

 

7. 125Crpc- for false maintenance even she is educated as well as capable to earn.

 

8. U/s 18 HAMA - Same as Above

 

9. U/s 323- As this section doesn't require the prima facie evidence and she always use in marital disputes.

 

10. U/s 497- Adultery --Where women is not authorized to be punished even though she had s*x with other man.


And many more..

 

These are the exclusive sections frequently used by women in India to settle their scores.

 

Now come to the statistical point of view where women make a more than 58000 cases of dowry every year with more than lacks of accused get harassed by fake allegations and cases. Within every 24 hours a senior citizen is taken on custody in the fake cases. Every 4-10 minute a male is arrested in false cases.In India the suicide rate of Male is double than female.


Now, come to my hell bent issue..


For me Pain is nothing but a Lesson from these Biased Law and also from the country which promotes these Biased Law to make suffer the innocent males.The majority of suffering male by these biased law only says one thing---Why Iam born in a country where there is no value for sperms rather than just "Always Ready to Transact Money" an ATM for Wife/In-laws/PoliceMen/Lawyers/Middle Men/Jurists/and many more Mscl. Persons in an Unending Battle of False cases.

 

Now, dear sir, If you are very much bothered about my hell bent issue then please go through the following to brush up your social panoramic view to at least convey these message to your other counterparts and respectful women of these country who files false cases on their husband to extort,harass and terrorize for only money.

 

For Suicidal rate of Male in India read the following article:


Suicide rate of Male in India is almost double than Female.

 

 

For False Rape cases Read the following article:


Women have created bridge to sell men

 

Fashion of filing false rape cases......

 

 

 

 

My view on Biased Law,Read the following article:

 

POLITICS , WOMEN AND BIASED LAW.....

 

Dil........Diwali........aur jhute cases in India.

 

"I FILLED CRIMINAL CASES ON HUSBAND YET I WANT HIM BACK" - INDIAN WIFE

 

If you can't Imagine the pain of millions of sufferers along with their old age parents, Unmarried sisters,Pregnant sisters,Untouched far away relatives who are daily forced to be suffered due to these Biased Laws then at least for being a human before a Lawyer don't be a person who follows the blind lie concept of Abla naari which is followed since 18th century and it will never stop until and unless women are made to be stand alone and know the meaning of empowerment in a practical and in a more unveiled way or else Lakhs of Laws for women can be made ahead but in truth the women will be at the same position where she was during the time of Sati Pratha only...


Until and unless A woman will not change the perception of dependency on other, they can't change herself.


Regards,


(ESIS)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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Divorce is the Destination of every Dead marriages, it doesn't need a Rocket science to be proved: A sufferer


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