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kalyani (Querist) 01 October 2015 This query is : Resolved
i want to know what i should do my husband married to me with ill intentions of money and now he and his parents are not allowing me to stay with them and want divorce by spoiling my life now he wants to marry another girl, my husband is imposing wrong blames on me and he wants divorce by claming me as mental. what i should do please let me know what judiciary says.

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Guest (Expert) 01 October 2015
Consult A Local Good Senior Advocate Or you Could also Take the Help of Women's Legal Aid Forums in Courts.They would Help you in making your In Laws Reap the Consequences.

K.S.Srinivas (Expert) 01 October 2015
If your husband is really not interested to stay with you and his parents are also in the same, and resorting to divorce, it seems no possibility of your stay and leading martial life with your husband. You can claim maintenance from your husband.

kalyani (Querist) 01 October 2015
yes ... but he is planning of not even to pay maintainence to me by imposing false blame on me and blaming me as mentally sick so there will be no need of giving maintainence....

P. Venu

(Expert) 02 October 2015
Putting such blame amounts to cruelty. You can seek divorce if you are convinced that things are beyond improvement.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 02 October 2015
Whether the marriage was arranged or love marriage?

Whether he has initiated any legal steps to get divorce?

When the marriage took place?

Firstly try to get matter solved amicably.

If not possible consult local lawyer and file criminal complaints / case according to advise. Prey to court for maintenance.

SAINATH DEVALLA (Expert) 02 October 2015
Kalyani,

The reasons U have mentioned may be true,but not a ground for divorce from either party.Breaking marital life is very easy than patching up and reuniting.Hence have some patience,involve elders and relatives of both the parties and try to solve the problem through mediation.
I can assess the kind of hardship and psychological tortures U have been encountering.

What ever charges he is mentioning against U he has to prove himself.Is he in the process of filing divorce?

If mediation fails U can take the assistance of women's orgns in UR place and fight.Don't yield to any kind of pressures from him.Do U have children?

kalyani (Querist) 05 October 2015
it was arrange marriage , no i dont have any child , in 2014 i got marriage . sir i have involved all elders and relatives but from his side they want to break this relation as their son is commisioned officer so they want his 2nd marriage from where they can get bulk amount of money to him and his family that is the reason. he is in illicit relationship with other girl actually... he has not filled for divorce yet but he is going to take a step in one or two coming months.

kalyani (Querist) 05 October 2015
please suggest me to get rid out of this problem in such a way he and my inlaws should realise they spoiled one girl's life because of their ill intemtions . please.