Regarding divorce
Nitu
(Querist) 22 September 2015
This query is : Resolved
I got married 9 months ago. Since then, there were disputes between me & my husband due to his nature of drinking, shouting, always insulting & beating me. Now, my case is with mediation center since one month but, I am not satisfied the way the mediator acts. Therefore, just want to know that is there any procedure to file a new case in Women cell alongwith this case. Or do I need to first withdraw the case from mediation center & then file the case in women cell. Please guide me at the earliest.
Thanks
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 22 September 2015
Mention the grounds U have put before the mediators.U can complain about the cruelty and his habbits to the Women's cell.Try to settle the matter without any legal hurdles which could ruin both the lives.Proper treatment by a good psychologist could cure UR husbands behaviour.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 22 September 2015
Try for amicable settlement, legal path would destroy the relation forever, and at last even ego satisfaction may not be availed.
However, if not possible, consult local lawyer and proceed.
Nitu
(Querist) 23 September 2015
I am also not in a favor to go legally. I also tried to solve the issue by meeting him personally but he is not ready to accept his mistakes at all & blaming me & my family for all that happened. He just want that I wuld accept that only me & my family were responsible for all the problems. So, plz guide me regarding the procedure to file complaint in WC when the case is wid Mediation Center.
Thanks
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 23 September 2015
There is a lot of logical difference between "HE IS NOT READY TO ACCEPT HIS MISTAKES" and "HE WILL NOT ACCEPT HIS MISTAKES"
P. Venu
(Expert) 23 September 2015
What is your priority - to save the marriage or to get divorce?
Nitu
(Querist) 24 September 2015
My priority is to save the marriage but nt on the sake of my life.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 24 September 2015
U R saying is is not able to realise his mistakes and is adamant in behaviour,U do not want a divorce.OK Divorce is not the ultimate,but as per UR replies it is understood that he is not repenting for his misdeeds.Any serious action may further deteriorate the present situation.Wait till the mediation is concluded.U can proceed further depending on the outcome of the mediation.
Nitu
(Querist) 26 September 2015
Thnks for ur suggestions sir. Mediation center has asked us to submit a list of articles etc. In the next hearing. Will u plz guide me regarding this. Do i have the right to receive all the articles which were given to me in marriage through my in-laws?
Thanks
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 26 September 2015
Yes,it would be streedhan given by UR parents.
Nitu
(Querist) 08 November 2015
My case is closed from mediation center on the basis of seperation. But no exact period has been mentioned. Moreover my husband was told to giv me the amount of committee which I had paid to his frnd through him. N during this period we could not go fr any legal proceedings. Now, he is refusing to retrn my money. Wt shall I do in this regrd. Kindly suggest.
