I need divorce
Guest
(Querist) 25 February 2012
This query is : Resolved
Me and my wife got married on September 10, 2011..and started staying at my home in Delhi. But she left my home and went to her parent’s as she was influenced by her mother. If we go to 1.5 month before the marriage, we proposed each other and planned for marriage in November 2011. But her father forced me to marry her in September 2011 only and promised me that he will re-arrange the marriage ceremony in November in front of my Family members. But he didn’t so. At time of marriage none of mine family members/ relatives/ friends were available. As we got married at Arya Samaj mandir on her father’s compelled me to do so. After the marriage only they started fighting with me on this topic that it can’t be happened. And on 30th October 2011 my wife left my home. Since that day only i tried my level best to contact her but neither she responded nor her family members. Before marriage i had taken money from her and i returned the same after that the proof of payment is with me (bank transfer slip). I sent her all luggage’s to her on her request through courier and the proof of Receipt is with me. Me and my family member tried to sit round the table and heal this issue. But they didn’t turned up for any meeting neither they informed us for postponing or cancelling this meeting. I am living my life in doubt, my business is suffering because of it, and my health is also going down day by day. I want a result and they are ignoring this fact. Since date of Marriage to till date neither i have taken any gift, money aor any kind materialistic things which can be counted in dowry. Through a trustable source i got to know they are planning file an fir against me and my family for dowry extortion. I never demand anything either from her or her families, expect her father’s promise. They are ignoring our calls, mails and massages.
Here i need an advice that is there any way to file a divorce case ? as i feel that we can’t run this relationship for longer. Please give a few minutes from your valuable time and advice me. I will be thankful for your this kind act.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 25 February 2012
My first advice to you is to be cool and do not loss the peace of mind. No doubt you have committed a great error in not taking in confidence to your family members while marrying,totally ignored your own family members and believed upon an outsider. If you have no care for your family members, who should those with you at this moment of crisis in your life?
Anyway, you cannot file a divorce petition at this stage and even the grounds for the divorce are not available with you. After the expiry of one year of marriage, you should file a petition under section 9 of HMA and meanwhile can do nothing except to persuade your wife by visiting the house of your in-laws with some respectable persons so that the matter may be amicably settled.
Guest
(Querist) 25 February 2012
Hi Sir,
Thanks for your quick reply. Can you please advise, what shouild i do..if they file dowry extortion case against me. which will be totally false.
Thanks
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 25 February 2012
MARRY IN HASTE, AND REPENT IN LEISURE,
Right??
OK. Keep cool, be busy with your job,
Don't Worry, God is Great,
God Bless you. I now know, how you was trapped, and it amounts to blackmail, extortion, Ok
25-2-28 07:15pm
Guest
(Querist) 25 February 2012
Thanks Mr. Shroff,
I will follow your advise and will get back to you in morning.
Thanks
raghubar
Guest
(Querist) 25 February 2012
Thanks Mr. Shroff,
I will follow your advise and will get back to you in morning.
Thanks
raghubar
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 25 February 2012
Wait and watch is the only thing you can do towards your apprehensions.And if they file FIR of 498A then you can move for anticipatory bail.You have no arms of attack.
Sanjeev
(Expert) 25 February 2012
Silence on their side is dangerous as no correspondence from girls side are often a bad sign as normally they are the most impacted and try to reconcile. So keep guard 498a may be in the making if possible try to find through someone if they have lodged any complaint in the nearest police staion where your wife resides.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 25 February 2012
You can seek AB at that time and can defend yourself as per circumstances as your right to defence cannot be snatched by anyone but before that create normal relations with your family members.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 26 February 2012
Divorce case does not normally lie before completion of one year of marriage.
Remain cool and calm and take things as they come.
In Delhi you can easily get AB.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
M V Gupta
(Expert) 27 February 2012
I feel you should write to her asking her to come back and stay with u. In ur letters u should discretely bring out the circumstances in which she left marital home, so that these letters would be useful to u in defending against any FIR filed by the wife.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 27 February 2012
All experts:
If SOMEONE arrived from usa, taped to get married or go jail, as physical relation, and could not contact fly members, is his fault?? forceful marriage, blackmail of a girl 6 years older than him, and demand huge amount;
SO MARRIED!! FEAR IN MIND!! TRAPPED.
/If he is victim of Woman oriented laws in India and either pay or loose 4L ob of usa, and jail !! Shonee saab, , he need help!!
HE MUST GO BACK QUICKLY OR LOOSE USA JOB.
HOW SMART, CUNNINGLY THESE GIRLS ACT???
You earn , she will get money!!. Ether way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girl will start sleeping moment USA employee come, please him for a fortnight, compel to marry, and demand huge amount, & 125 mtn or loose job, visa, j& go jail!!!
WHAT A WONDERFUL PLAN FOR LIFETIME INCOME.
BEWARE OF SUCH UNMARRIED OLD WOMAN ; GOD KNOWS HOW MANY TIMES THEY MARRY?? ::::::::::
