Marital Dispute
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Anonymous
(Querist) 20 October 2010
This query is : Resolved
Respected Sirs,
I got married in nov'09 with a hindu girl in an arranged marriage. From the very first day after marriage, the girl started being abnormally ill. Many incidences of her mental and physical ailments occurred in the very initial days of marriage. The girl affirmed that some years ago some kind of poison had damaged her body and now she was dependent on the medicines only. Then I left the girl with her parents for seven months. On this, the other party filed an application with the women cell complaining that I and my parents were disturbing her which was completely false. The I.O. tortured me and my parents very badly and compelled us to keep the girl in a separate house. Now the girl is living with me. She is still being regularly ill. Wo do-teen bar behosh ho chuki he. Everytime when she goes ill, I ask her for a Doctor but she never agrees to go to any doctor. One day she told me that she is taking some kind of treatment from a doctor at her parent’s place. But she never tells in details. Everytime she becomes ill, she tries to conceal it from me and always tries to avoid the doctors. When I ask her parents about her ailments,they also donot cooperate.
Moreover, the girl treats me very badly, she abuses and shouts at me all the time. She abuses my parents also. She is repeatedly threatening me by saying:
•hum bahot khatarnak log hen, delhi ke mavaliyon se mere bhai ke gehre sambandh hen,
•women cell men dahej pratarna ki application de doongi,
•jesa men kehti hoon wesa karo warna gambhir parinam bhugatne honge
•apni sari salary mujhe do ya phir talak lo
•sari umr meri sewa karni hogi aur jesa kehti hoon wesa hi karma hoga
•tumhare parents ka ghar japt karwa doongi.
•Tum sabko ander karwa doongi.
.Hamara shadi ka kharch de do aur talak le lo
From a last long period of time I’m living a very stressful life. Pls guide What can I do? And How I can save myself and my parents? Can the girl really damage us so badly as she is speaking?
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 20 October 2010
I think, you are over stressed. Things are not like narrated by you. law do not permit any person to define it on his sweet will an whims. You should have left her and should have filed a petition under section 12 (1) of HMA before Family Court and should have sought a decree of divorce on the grounds you told but that stage has ended. You may collect evidence like recording of her wordings, messages, threatening etc. and then may file a petition seeking divorce on the ground of section 13 (1) (1a) of HMA. Consult a local lawyer and follow him.
pawan sharma
(Expert) 21 October 2010
Disscused your case with colal Advocate also.
Srinath Kondapally
(Expert) 23 October 2010
before applying divorce against her better to intimate the same to concerned police officials about her torture and harassment by narrating all this story and take assistance of your local advocate.
DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g
(Expert) 21 October 2010
