I met the girl on line and was in a Live in Relationship for over 6 months and finally got a arranged marriage done with consent of Elders.
16 months into marriage:
1- She Threatns police action every day. (Recorded Calls)
2- She Threatns to commit suicide and implicate my family. (Recorded Calls)
3- Does not contribute a penny in running of house. Saying "MAN OF HOUSE" should provide.(Though she is a Manager in MNC and earns more than me).
4- Ill treats my parents, sister, brother and relative. ( All living seperately as we have a nuclear family)
5- Created havoc when my parents or relatives visit. Altough she has forced me to allow her brother to stay with us in same house and her parents are frequent visitors.
6- Her Brother and family threatns me of physical abuse every now and then. (Just verbal No evidence)
7- I need to report office at 7:30am. She normally picks up fight post midnight and then does not allow me to sleep till 4 or 5 in morning. She goes her office at 11 am after a sound sleep.
8- Expresses right on almost everyhting from Furniture to Kitchen ware which I poessesed before marriage.
9- DOES NOT COOK OR INDULGE IN ANY HOUSEHOLD WORK. WE HAVE HIGHLY PAID MAIDS TO DO IT. Still complains of Harrasment.
10- Calls my Office Numbers frequently and knowing blocks the lines meant for client calls. Threatns to create a scene in my office and make me loose my job. Brings bad name to me in highly competetive IT world. (Colleages who are bugged willing to testify)
11- She also demands me to return 1.5 lacs that she has spend towards various household things in past 1 year. She can not prove it technically as I have been taking care of finances from rent to car emi to paying maids.
Questions:
1- Are recorded calls admissible evidence?
2- How do I prove mental cruelty and all the facts stated above.
3- How do I proceed to Legal sepration/Divorce?
4- How do I insulate my old and sick parents from flase cases.
