I had an arrange marriage on March 25th 2013, it was fixed in Oct 2012 and in between I had time to know my future wife. During inintal stage i had recieved a mail from her Ex boy friend and she sweared to have no relation with him. i had trusted her in this matter and tried to keep the trust in her. It was fine till dec end abd suddenly she started complaining on my parents, with my reflex against her she took it to her parents asking to cancel the marriage. As the engagement was just over i got scared of society and convinced her not to do so. but this dint stop till marriage she had broke up with me 2 more times. every time i used to call her friends to convince her and let her know am not here to hurt her. i have said her that i like her and have no intension to get seprated for silly reasons. she had said we have problems cause we are away. after marriage we will not have problem. i was also happy to hear that and had left all her abusing words and aragont behaviors shown by her during those days. but after marriage she used to avoid me in all matters by the same silly and unreal issues. seeing this i asked her to explain what is her problem and she said nothing the went to call her parents at midnight by 1 am (that was my birthday and i was not happy as she dint speak to me whole day) i said not to do so as it not rite time. she replied me by asking who am i to say not to call. i said i am your husband. and she threw the mangalsutra on bed and said to give her mobile. today i was compleatly broken. as the issue continues till 4th May and turns up by her act of calling her parents to get her back as am torturing her. while leaving she had conditioned to make new home and get her back. i dint reply t any of her act. later after one week she calls back to ask my reaction and i said am not gona leave my parents who need me at later age. and after this she is telling she wants to come back but am afraid to get her back. reasons are as follows
1. am scared that she may do some other drama to get me seprated from my parents and relatives.
2. she complains and makes fals blames which are so called offence in law, where i have not involved in any of them nor my parents.
3. I got doubt about her past matter that she may have lied me and i went to her ex guy who says they had relation before and he had left her cause she was not able to leave her first relation. now am scared to get her back cause if its true that she is not able to forget her first relation, and if this is the reason for her to make all these issues then if he comes back or happens like she is not intrested in me this may lead to any of the criminal issues in future.
Please do help me to know what to do. i just have given brief of the issue as i cant type all the matters which has happened. you can contact me and let me know best solution.
