I and my wife (both are relatives) battled each other on Sep 2012 and living in different place now. She is staying with her parents and I am staying at my work place. In this 1.3 months, I and my parents tried so many times to contact her over phone, but she simply disconnected the call whenever we called. Also in this period we sent so many persons (relations) to talk with her and her parents to send her to my house. But she refusing to come back always.
Before 4 months, I sent a lawyer notice stating that what happened between us on the day when we fought and asking her to let me whether she will come or not. But she replied like she is with her parents because of my mental torcher, list of marriage gifts given by her parents and never replied for my question like she will come or not.
We never ever asked any gifts, money, dowry anytime anywhere. All they gave as per them wish. Now they turning the concept like we demanded all these. They gifted few items and sum of money because her parents gifted the same to her elder sister’s marriage. As I understood that my wife motivation is like she will not give divorce and she will not come back to me also, so that she can make loss of my life.
I thought to apply divorce if she replied like she don’t have interest to come back. But purposefully she never reply like she will come or not. I never asked any dowry and ready to receive her, but she only avoiding me.
I don’t know how can I proceed this. My situation is that I can live with her if she come, else I need divorce. I am the only son in my family, I need a child and family life. At last I am sure that she will not come back and she will push me to jail if I go to court to get divorce. Anyone please give some idea for this issue.