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Sri Marelle   06 January 2016

Wife left to hyd and filed divorce

I'm a US Citizen and found my bride thru matrimony sites and we both agreed at the time, not to get our marriage registered at hyderabad, as she wants to visit USA soon as possible with less time of delay thru Fiance visa compared to spouse visa, which usually takes more than yr. whereas fiance is less than 6months. so we had a traditional wedding in Aug 2013, after marriage, i left back to USA to continue my work/job. in Nov 2013, she got the interview at Mumbai USA embassy, during the interview, she claimed that, she's not yet married and likes to fly to USA to accompany her fiance, which is me and get married in USA. and she got the visa. In dec 2013, I fly to hyd to accompany her back to our home.

In Jan'14 we got married here in USA as per her visa and applied for her status chance from fiance visa to greencard. from Jan'2014 to Jan' 2015 we had few arguments, here n there but overall we had a fun loving relationship from my end.

In Jan'2015 she got her temp or probationary greencard for 2yrs and she left to India for her sisters marriage, since she left, she seems differend, ignored my calls, no skype or txts.. hardly replies or answers my call, whereas me, I got more emotionally and physically attached to her during our relationship as married couple, i couldnt understand.. before marriage or between Aug'2013 to dec'2013, there were constant commnunication skype, texts, calls etc.. but when she left, she seemed different, when i asked her whats the problem, she kinda gave me vague answers, relatives are home, im busy with shopping etc.. but still she ignored etc.. my father-in-law said.. dont call her many times, we are busy etc.. and in March, she called me and said, she;s not flying back on the original flight return ticket i bought and would like to stay additional month. so me and my mom visited hyd for her sisters marraige few days earlier in March and tried to reconcile or sort things out.. there, she expressed she's not happy etc.. and would like her parents to accompany, and want me to sponsor them visa and have the same life my parents in USA have.. and i explained thats not possible in short time, as we only got married for a yr.. and with my financial situation, she's already a dependent and my sponsor form wouldnt be helpful to sponsor additional. and my parents live in texas and we live in phoenix in a one bed.. but still she was hesitant.. so me and my mom flew back to USA without attending her sister marriage.

In may 2015, she filed for divorce in hyderabad family court, but she sent the notice to my parents address in texas and my father signed the paper to recieve or registered mail. we tried to call, reconcile etc.. they wouldnt pick up phone or any.. and since may2015, the court has not recieved my dad's signature card or the reciept, so the hearding been extended thrice.. and is scheduled for 4th time in Feb.

Meanwhile, i filed for divorce in USA as per her visa on her indian passport and her greencard.

In her hyderabad divorce, she claimed false accusations that, I did not or let her pray in home or setup pooja stuff etc, i have some physco disorder, visit physc doctor every month, secretly takes medicines, i put secret cameras in bathroom and bedroom and such false accusations.. apart from this, she also filed a case in hyderabad high court about the same that, secret cameras and asked the or plead in the highcourt to not allow me to post such online.. and high court replied saying that she needs to complain where this incident happen and not in hyd and close the case.

Now, my question or help i need is, can i file defamtion case on the case she filed in high court, as any future alliance may search my name in high court website and see the prayer. and court simply said should file the complain where it happened.. but nothing related to my character?

and i'm planning to hire an attorney or advocate in hyd to content the divorce in family court that all the accusations have been false and go from there.. will the court ask her evidence to proove her accusations? cross examination or whats the process which will happen soon?



 7 Replies

Vicky (Engg)     07 January 2016

relax brother, she has filed for divorce in india. first get divorce in US & do second marriage in US or be in LIR. whatever she want to do it in india let her do it, she may also file 498a, dvc, 125, etc

saravanan s (legal advisor)     07 January 2016

if you dont contest the case hyderabad court she will be given a exparte divorce.as long as you dont come to india her criminal cases against you wont bother you.if your parents are staying back in hyderabad apply for anticipatory bail to protect them from arrests in case your wife files false cases against them.also ask your parents to file an nc against your wife that their dil might file false cases against them

Vicky (Engg)     07 January 2016

what is ''nc'' saravanan sir?

Sri Marelle   07 January 2016

@saravanan so from the info i posted, i do like to contest the case in hyderabad, so that she had provide evidence for all the false accusations she mentioned in her divorce petition against me. at the same time, is it better chance or best to file a defamation case against her in hyd high court, as she complained against me falsly that i installed secret cameras in our bedroom and bathroom in our apartment in USA? that way, it wont be black mark against my character?

Vidya (ss)     08 January 2016

Hello, I don't think it is good idea of contesting and drag the issue ..going for sh*tty 498a bla bla cases...try to speak through mediator and settle the issue. At least you save time and most valuable time ( age). Here in India as long as few curropted basterd there..they stand for sh*tty aligation making b*tches ...they know they can't win..but they well aware that by dragging the cases and making you to Rome around court..how to torcher you...by this of course you loose money (either ways) you also loose your carrier, time and mental peace..so my advice just get rid of that sh*t. I am too Telugu Hyderabad same NRI ..I finished 4 years while contesting but no move " here few layers and police doing brothal business with their mother like profisions.." many good there.. But bad God many ways to torcher you,good got only one way to protect you. All the best

Sri Marelle   08 January 2016

she hasnt filed any 498a etc yet.. but i do like to contest, that way she has to surrender evidence for all the false accusations she filed for divorce petition, that way, im clear. at the same time, i do want to file defamation case in high court, that way, the complaint she filed against me, she has to surrender the evidence. if not defamation case for few lakhs.. i guess that will hit her face.

Mukesh sharma (job )     03 February 2016

i agree with some of them you no need to be affraid he dont do nothing coz aall these happen in usa not in india and she need to prove all of this type of alligation so you need first divourse in usa anyou d after in india and in india divourse long process not very simple 

and one thing you have not register you marriage in india its complusary 


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