F L SHAIKH (JOBLESS) 22 February 2010

WIFE LEFT MY HOME

IAM ALSO SUFFERING FROM SAME CASE MY WIFE HAS GONE TO HER MOTHERS PLACE IN LUCKNOW IAM FROM MUMBAI WHEN SHE LEFT SHE WAS 3 MONTHS PREGNANT AND SUDDENLY AFTER REACHING HER PLACE SHE ABORTED HER CHILD WITHIN A WEEK WITHOUT MY CONSENT AND HER MOTHER CALLED ME AND INFORMED ME THAT SHE HAS ABORTED THE CHILD WHEN SHE FOUND THAT MY FAMILY IS VERY UPSET AND ANGRY SHE SAID SHE WILL NOT COME BACK TO MUMBAI AND SAID THAT IF I WANT TO COME AND SHIFT TO LUCKNOW THEN IT IS FINE OTHERWISE SHE WILL TAKE DIVORCE IAM IN DEEP LOVE WITH MY WIFE SO I DID NOT COMPLAINED UNTIL NOW. WE GOT MARRIED ONM NOV 2008 AND SHE LEFT TRO HER HOUSE ON 28TH FEB 2009 UNTIL NOW SHE HAS NOT RETURNED WHEN I WENT TO MEET HER ON 1ST SEPTEMBER 2009 AND STAYED WITH HER FOR 1 MONTH SHE SAID THAT TO ME TO RESIGN AND WORK IN LUCKNOW I CAME BACK TO MUMBAI ON 3RD OCTOBER 2009 AND SUDDENLY ON 18TH NOVEMBER I RECEIVED A SUMMON FOR DIVORCE UNDER MUSLIM MARRAIGE ACT AND AGAIN SHE HAS SEND ME A SUMMON UNDER SEC 125 CRPC FOR 10000 RS PER MONTH IAM JOBLESS AND I VISITED TO LUCKNOW ON 8TH FEB ON MY FIRST APPEARRING IN LUCKNOW FAMILY COURT SHE THREATENED ME NOT TO COME TO LUCKNOW OTHER WISE SHE WILL KILL ME, BUT ANY HOW I MANAGED TO COPEUP THE DATE AND IAM BACK IN MUMBAI NOW PRIOR TO MY MARRAIGE OUR ENGAGEMENT TOOK PLACE WAY BACK ON 25TH JUNE 2006 AFTER 2 WEEKS OF ENGAGEMENT MY MOTHER IN LAW THREATENED TO BROKE THE ENGAGEMENT UNLESS I MUST PURCHASE A PLOT IN LUCKNOW AND SHE ASKED ME THAT SHE HAS FOUND A PLOT FOR 4 LACS AND I MUST GIVE 2 LACS AND SHE WILL ALSO GIVE 2 LACS AND WILL PURCHASE THE PLOT I SHOWED UNABILITY TO SEND AS I WAS NOT STABLE ENOUGH BUT AFTER SEVEREL THREAT FROM MY MOTHER IN LAW I SEND HER 2 LACS RS THROUGH EXCHANGE FROM DUBAI AND ASKING ON PARTNERSHIP DEED SHE SAID THAT THE PLOT WILL BE ON HER NAME AS IAM IN DUBAI AND WHEN I WILL COME ON LEAVE SHE WILL MAKE AN AGREEMENT FOR THE SAME UNTIL NOW SHE HAS DONE SO. PLS SUGGEST ME WHAT KIND OF CASE AND HOW WILL THEY GET ARRESTED,I COULD FILE FOR MY WIFE AND HER FAMILY AS SHE HAS USED ME AND THROWN ME WHEN HER REQUIREMENT GOT OVER. I WANT THEM TO COME AND COMPROMISE WITH ME AS THEY ARE NOT EVEN READY TO SPEAK. EVEN TODAY IF SHE COMES BACK AND STAYS WITH ME I WILL FORGET EVERY THING AND WILL STAY WITH MY WIFE HAPPILY EVER AFTER.

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Ajitabha Pandey (none) 22 February 2010

take ground of section 125(4), rest is ur destiny!!

Anil Agrawal (Retired) 22 February 2010

498A and DV Act are staring you on your face. Go to a lawyer and take pre-emptive action. Obviously, the lady has sinister design in her mind.

BHARATI MITRA (ES) 23 February 2010

Our family friend is facing a severe problem from his wife of 28 years. She has deserted him since last one year. she comes back after 2/3 days of leaving the house and break open the lock of the house in her husbands absence when he was at work, ransacks the house along with one more lady, take away all the stuff, take away all the jewelleries from the bank locker as she operated the account, withdraws entire funds from one of the savings account leaving the minimum balance, goes and stays with her mother. Now she files case against him asking for interim maintenance, injunction for not selling flat where they stayed and permanent maintenance under the adoption and maintenance act. She has been harassing him for quite some time by threatening him of commiting suicide, not allowing his mother to stay with them though she is 80+ and he being the only son, she has abused him physically, has created embarassing scene in the society. Moreover he has not job now. What should be his step towards the case filed by her, he has lots of evidence to her cruelty and bad behaviour?

Arup Kumar Gupta, Korba, Chattishgarh ((m)9893058429) 23 February 2010

ms.mitra

go to court. this is the only solution here. first do fir against her.

if locker or bank a/c in her name, then you have nothing to do on it. but breaking the lock of your flat, in your absence is a serious offence under IPC. in case of refusing the fir, meet higher police authority.

BHARATI MITRA (ES) 23 February 2010

thanks Mr. Parekh,

he stays in andheri with his mother now, he is not in town now, i think you can definitely help him get justice, he has fulfilled all his duties thruout his life and now this is condition. I will tell him to contct you. once he is back how does he contact you?

BHARATI MITRA (ES) 23 February 2010

thanks Mr. Gupta,

I will check whether he has done FIR, but if not then can he do now after so much of gap, its almost 1 year

Hardik Mehta (Family Counsellor) 24 February 2010

Furzan,

Dump her. She is not for you and has inflicted more cruelty on you. File the case of divorce in Mumbai on the grounds of cruelty. If she files the criminal complain, then file IPC 312 for killing the child. She will be behind bars for 10 years. Also contest for maintenance u/s 125(4).

Hardik Mehta (Family Counsellor) 24 February 2010

Bharati,

Your family friend can still file the case of theft. He can do so in the court also if the police is not listening. Try to gather some more evidences about the theft. She can be charged with dacoity.