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Subhomoy Das (Retail Manager)     15 May 2012

Wife

Hi to all. I`m posting this after long time with a positive note.

My Prob :  My wife left my house in pregnant condition in nov. 2010. She gave birth to a baby boy in may 2011. During pregnancy she joined a school service at her parents house without informing me. She took maternity leave and was not ready to leave her school job. she joined back to school after her maternity leave got exhausted. She was not ready to come back to my house. she was supported by her parents. i was missing my son. in meantime i lost my father. even then she didnt came back. i was ready to close the relation and was heading to file for RCR or divorce. But she was not ready to give me divorce and she kept in touch with me constantly over phone. then she kept one condition to return that she will come back if i leave my old widow mother which i straightway denied. i didnt support her a single penny. she was taking care of herself and the baby on her own income. i was on my stand that i`l do the duties of husband and father if only she returns to my house and not stay at her parents house. i was firm on my stand. i was mentally prepared to face all police / court action. but till date she didnt lodge any complain against me .

 

NOW : SINCE FEBRUARY,2012 SHE HAVE CHANGED HER MIND AND SHE AGREED TO RETURN TO MY HOUSE WITHOUT ANY CONDITIONS. SHE USED TO CALL UP MY MOTHER TOOO. I ALSO TRIED TO TAKE THE MATTER ON APOSITIVE NOTE SPECIALLY FOR THE SAKE OF THE BABY WHOM I MISSED. SHE FINALLY RETURN IN MID APRIL. WE ARE STAYING NOW PEACEFULLY ALTOGETHER INCLUDING MY WIDOW MOTHER. I `M HAPPY THAT GOD HAVE LOOK AFTER ME AND SITUATIONS IMPROVED. I`M HAPPY NOW BUT VERY CAUTIOUS AS IT IS TOO EARLY TO JUDGE WHETHER MY WIFE RETURNED AS SHE REALISED HER MISTAKE OR SHE HAVE HAD ANY OTHER FOUL PLAY IN HER MIND THAT TIME WILL TELL. TILL THEN WAIT AND WATCH FOR ME BUT AT THE SAME TIME I`M PERFORMING MY DUTIES AS A HUSBAND, AS A FATHER AND AS A SON. LASTLY AS A GOOD HUMAN BEING.

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Shantanu Wavhal (Worker)     16 May 2012

wish u all the very best. everything will be fine.

Rama chary Rachakonda (Secunderabad/Highcourt practice watsapp no.9989324294 )     16 May 2012

Mr. Das,

Patience is more important as lord Rama. Women have patient a lot comparatively men. Therefore patience work in any field. Gandhi Mahatma also did with patience.

SURESH KALAGA (secretary)     16 May 2012

Dear brother,

Firstly, I wish you a happy marital life with your wife & loving kid.  Your uncertainty is acceptable about this return. You would have given a written statement in the concerned police station (where you are residing with your family) mentioning all the issues happened between you and your wife till your wife returned you. And also informing we both have mutually agreed to lead a happy family life without anyones pressure in any manner. This is for your information."    This may hlep you in case your wife plays any ploy. (I wish this will not happned).  Ok anyway handle with care and have a peaceful life.  can meet @  sureshmgpl@gmail.com for any legal assistance always.


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