Request you to think about the present and not the past. If anything has gone wrong in ur marriage, then in this case you should go and opt for MCD instead of fighting with your husband. Tell him frankly that you do not want to continue further with him and want to stay apart and live a normal life.
Please do not counter or else you will lost ur money, time and energy and you will get nothing in hand, so better let for off ur husband and do not file for 498a & DV or else your relationship will become bitter and bitter day by day and you will lose him and his family forever.
You go to your husband and his family and ask for MCD. I hope that they too will opt for the same and you too will safely move into new relationship.
Please request you not to take any revenge on ur husband, let him do anything to you.
I hope you are god fearing women and do have trust and faith in god and he will help you out in this situation.
Trust me you will feel good too..............
best of luck deepti and you live better life in future