hi suma,
you can take any decision but dont forget ur husband coz if he will come to know aboute same later what will happen? please dont spoil ur husband life before moving ahead clear every thing with your husband if he is okie after lestning all truth to "kisi ka baap tumhara kuch nahi ukhad sakta". coz tumhare husband ko kuch nahi pata ki uske peeche se sab kya ho raha hai....and sach ek din samne aa hi jata hai.... i already told you i m suffering from the same but in my case i that bl**dy innocent bla bla... husband...
rgds
