1. If you have paid so much money then ask your advocate make an application to close the 125 case and later if she is still not prepared to cohabit with you then file a petition for divorce and in that case you would not be required to pay any interim maintenance or alimony after the decree is awarded.
2. I have not understood as why you want the money to be recovered.
3. You need to express much more facts and details of such case so that proper inference can be sustained as to need of recovery of your money.
4. If need be for further private consultation on terms of paying moderate sum of remuneration then you can get my contact details by clicking my name shown in the L.H.S. margin of this reply format.