dear lawyers, members - i have filed divorce, contested and obtained by showing evidences of ex-wife behaviour and etc.etc. girl baby is 4 years old now, and dont know am the father. i have let it that way and did not file for visiting rights or custody, as i feel it is good to keep it uknown rather than making it painful to visit every week. i am paying monthly amount for the child into ex-wife's account, and committed to make it till baby finishes her education/marriage.
present concerns: i never thought of getting married as i dont have great ideas about woman anymore. however, recent incidents on health of parents and my own, making me to think on this. basically, there was no one to take me to the hospital in the night. so, apparently, i need a company for next phase of life, also there is a possibility our indian judicial system will help her to reopen the divorce case if she goes to HC or by any means. my lawyer is suggesting me to get married to protect my divorce.
opportunity to start life: a relative's daughter is willing to marry me ever since divorce case started, in fact waiting for me to say something last one year without getting married. her family is poor (both parents not educated and not having any proper work/salary), she has masters degree .
how to procceed now: while, yes, i have to bounce back in life, i dont want to get into any NEW issues in life as am already 38. will there be any issues of getting married to her. should i ask her to write any bond or document to state she knows the facts about me, and as a precautionary measure ask her parents to write down on things like no dowry is given/taken..etc.
498a: discharge petition is pending for 10 months in lower court. trial has not started. will remarriage impact my 498a proceedings? i am 100% confident of winning this case.
kindly let me know your thoughts. thanks everyone.