Prakash (DOCTOR) 29 May 2013

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I WAS MARRIED IN DEC 2009..I AM A DOCTOR AND BELONG TO A MIDDLE INCOME CLASS GOT MARRIED TO A DOCTOR BELONGING TO HIGHER CLASS FAMILY. HER FATHER , MOTHER, SISTER. BROTHER IN LAW ALL DOCTOR...WE HAD PROBLEMS IN MY MARRIAGE FROM BEGINNING AS SHE WAS VERY ARROGANT AND TREATING ME AS IF I WAS A SERVENT...NEVER LIVED LIKE A WIFE...BUT I WAS ADJUSTING TILL MY MOTHER GOT SICK AND CAME TO LIVE WITH US IN DELHI...SHE STARTED SHOWING PROBLEMS...AND AFTER 6 MONTH SUDDENLY HER PARENTS AND FAMILY MEMBER CAME TO MY PLACE AND ILLTREATED ME AND MY MOTHER AND TOOK HER DAUGHTER WITH THREATING THAT EVERYONE WILL GO TO JAIL....AFTER 1 MONTH I LODGED RCR AFTER DISCUSSING IN YOUR FORUM....MY WIFE CAME FOR RCR IN COURT AND SHE ASKED FROM HER SIDE FOR DIVORCE...OUR CASE THEN SEND TO THE COUNCILLOR....AFTER DISCUSSING WITH BOTH OF US COUNCILLR AGREED FOR MUTUAL DIVORCE....BUT MY WIFE SAID THAT SHE HAS GIVEN 30 LAKH RS AS A DOWRY AND WANT IT BACK.....BUT IT IS TOTALLY FALSE ...DOWRY WAS NOT TAKEN...COUNCILLOR SOMEHOW MANAGED TO FIND OUT THAT GIRL IS LYING..BUT SHE TOLD ME THAT YOU MIGHT HAVE TO PAY 10-15 LAKH RS...MY QUESTION ARE

1-IF I DENY FOR MUTUAL DIVORCE,,,IS THAT WOULD FAVOUR ME...

2- I DON,T HAVE ANY MONEY TO PAY FOR HER WHAT TO DO....

3-SHE IS A MILLINOIRE I CAN PROVE THIS

4-SHE TOOK ALL JEWELLARY WITH HER SHE ACCEPTTED THIS INFRONT COUNCILLOR

5-MARRIAGE IS FOR 4 YEARS ...MY EXPENCES ON HER FOR THIS MUCH YEAR...

6- SHE ABUSED MY MOTHER AND INSULTED ME ....

PLEASE ADVICE EARLY AS COUNCILLOR HAS ASKED TO COME AGAIN AFTER 15JUNE WITH PROOF OF DOWRY...THANKS

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Originally posted by : Prakash

Then drink boost or complan daily, get ready to roam to court halls for next 6 years [minimum]

2- I DON,T HAVE ANY MONEY TO PAY FOR HER WHAT TO DO....

Raise a loan, ask mediator to try lessen the amount, ask intervention of judge, tell about your helplessness to pay money, judge will help you lessen money.

3-SHE IS A MILLINOIRE I CAN PROVE THIS

Then contest the divorce, she wont get a penny as alimony, but be ready to roam to court halls for atleast next 6 years.

4-SHE TOOK ALL JEWELLARY WITH HER SHE ACCEPTTED THIS INFRONT COUNCILLOR

Good, one less headache for you.

5-MARRIAGE IS FOR 4 YEARS ...MY EXPENCES ON HER FOR THIS MUCH YEAR...

Expenses on her??? what???

6- SHE ABUSED MY MOTHER AND INSULTED ME ....

PLEASE ADVICE EARLY AS COUNCILLOR HAS ASKED TO COME AGAIN AFTER 15JUNE WITH PROOF OF DOWRY...THANKS

Next time dont use caps lock while typing.

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Rajendra K Goyal (Advocate) 29 May 2013

If you deny the mutual consent divorce, the divorce case will take a long time and again appeal can be done. Both of you will not be able to settle your life. You may face cases of dowery etc. making you like a permanant visitor to the courts and also troubling your nears and dears. The agreed money is to be arranged by you only, means are to be decided by you. What so ever is she or her family is having it seems will not effect the case in your favour. She may say that due to prosperity of her parents he is asking dowery / money again and again. It seems the troubles started after the visit of your mother. If you want to save marriage which is in the benefit of both, you may keep your mother separate though again it would be a bitter pill.

This is upto you if you want to take divorce, you have good opportunity by paying the money. If you want to continue be ready to face the music of todays scenirio in such disputes. Law is in favour of ladies and there are ample chance of misusing it.