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Rcr

Required you suggestion,

My friend got married to a guy on Nov’15, it was arrange marriage, but due to the misbehavior and mental abuse of inlaws, especially by father in-law and no support from her husband, she left her matrimonial home in just a month of marriage. Then her husband instead of coming to her and discusses and sort out the issues he mail her, Message her etc, is this approach correct in relationship?

Then he send court paper in her office address, RCR where put all false allegation on her.

Then he resigns from job and run away from the town, many times she asked, her friend, her family and her relative asked where he is? He reply casually that he don’t know where he is now. He hide where he doing job and where he living. By filing RCR he himself do not know where he is. He messages her once in blue moon. Is this approach correct after marrying a lady following all rituals and throw her out of life and family coz of  his parents and sister interest.   

Now he withdraw RCR, saying that she dint come back when he file RCR and its late now and she don’t respect her in-laws, By filing RCR he run away from town and now saying he will not live with his wife and will not take his wife back. He listens to his family and does what they ask him to do only.  He filed RCR and withdraw it and taking marriage as a fun game. What is the position of wife in husband life, can he do whatever he feel like doing with her.

She is doing job now, her job is private, today she doing job, tomorrow she may do or situation may come when she may have to leave job, then what will happen to her.

To avoid maintenance and alimony when he will file divorce he run away from town and he will say he don’t have job so how will he give his wife maintenance, he is doing all this from the past divorce experience of his family. Without job also he can survive coz his father is having a property and other source of income. What kind of financial support she can get from her husband?

 

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Originally posted by : Ranjana Sharma
Required you suggestion,

My friend got married to a guy on Nov’15, it was arrange marriage, but due to the misbehavior and mental abuse of inlaws, especially by father in-law and no support from her husband, she left her matrimonial home in just a month of marriage. Then her husband instead of coming to her and discusses and sort out the issues he mail her, Message her etc, is this approach correct in relationship?

Then he send court paper in her office address, RCR where put all false allegation on her.

Then he resigns from job and run away from the town, many times she asked, her friend, her family and her relative asked where he is? He reply casually that he don’t know where he is now. He hide where he doing job and where he living. By filing RCR he himself do not know where he is. He messages her once in blue moon. Is this approach correct after marrying a lady following all rituals and throw her out of life and family coz of  his parents and sister interest.   

Now he withdraw RCR, saying that she dint come back when he file RCR and its late now and she don’t respect her in-laws, By filing RCR he run away from town and now saying he will not live with his wife and will not take his wife back. He listens to his family and does what they ask him to do only.  He filed RCR and withdraw it and taking marriage as a fun game. What is the position of wife in husband life, can he do whatever he feel like doing with her.

She is doing job now, her job is private, today she doing job, tomorrow she may do or situation may come when she may have to leave job, then what will happen to her.

To avoid maintenance and alimony when he will file divorce he run away from town and he will say he don’t have job so how will he give his wife maintenance, he is doing all this from the past divorce experience of his family. Without job also he can survive coz his father is having a property and other source of income. What kind of financial support she can get from her husband?

 

Regards

If she wanted financial support, then she should have asked for money to be kept in Fixed Deposit in her name before marrying.  This could be done by,

Her father.

Her mother.

Her relatives.

her would be husband.

Her would be inlaws.

Now that she has screwed up with husband and inalws (hsuband and inlaws here aer smart, and they already avoided paying alimony of any kind, and as your frnd is working woman and educated she wont get any kind of alimony from court).  So... For financial support she can apply for govt  job.  Or find better job than the one which she is doing at present.  This will help her become financially more stable than before.

 

If she doesnot get govt job, she should write to Modi regarding it.  He has anyway promised that he will give jobs.

 

Marriage was not required at all for your friend.  If having financial independence and secure financial status was the only motive, there were many otehr ways of achieving it.  Marriage used to fulfil such needs three decades ago.  Not now.  Now a days boys and his parents have become more smart than girls parents and girls.  If you ppl want to get married jsut for sake of having secure life, they also found many ways to dodge paying alimony.

 

best is to take mutual divorce or find some new bakra who is not as smart as present husband.

 

Please visit my profile page at

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/profile.asp?member_id=84464.


(Guest)

It is a jokes or what, Husband & inlaws spoil the life of a girl and you guys giving such comment. You should be ashemed of your comments.


(Guest)
Originally posted by : Ranjana Sharma
It is a jokes or what, Husband & inlaws spoil the life of a girl and you guys giving such comment. You should be ashemed of your comments.

Maam.

this is not a joke. and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

If you want money, you can file 125 crpc application.  You are talking as if I am your husband or I am the judge. Please think wiht cool mind.

Court sees whether woman is capable of earning money.  Even if you cook some cock and bull story, court will maximum allow alimony to you for 1 year. and not more than that as you are educated and working woman.

Rest there is no point in pursuing matter of proeperty etc.  Only thing is divorce, faster you get, faster you can find some other suitable boy for yourself (your fiend).

Truth is harsh.  And I am not here to give ear pleasing replies and mis-lead you even further.

 

Regards.

whatnot   13 February 2017

What is the current status of RCR?

Has your friend attended and filed her statement?

Your friend should state that she is willing to stay with her husband and allow RCR decree to remain.

If done, then your friend husband is in real danger.

She can file all kind of cases and get his ass back in court and he crawl back on his knees.

 

It was stupid of him to go RCR if he had no reason to stay with her. He is not actually avoiding maintainance, he will be liable.

Off course all this take time. One step at a time. And he can be at her mercy.

 

Concentrate on RCR

stanley (Freedom)     13 February 2017

@ Author 

1. Your friend is a working women hence no maintenance .

2. Your fre=iend is not preganant hence no kid and hence no maintenance for kid .

3. Your friends eye is on husbands property even that also she will not get . 

4. your freind should go in for MCD and accept whatever he offers .This money as per helping hands advise can be kept in FD and she can live on the Interest .

5. After MCD she can catch hold of another Bakra and make use of him and get richer and richer day by day .

6 Last of all if you are unhappy with the above you can Negotitate with Mr Helping hand and he will fight your cases for free initally ,and as and when he is able to grab their property  and negoitate for higher amount in MCD you can pay him 50 % as Fees .

7. He will show you several ways of filing false case like Domestic Violence . Where your freind can sit on her husband lap and shake her ass and he will not be able to do a thing .He will get orders like right to residence ,compensation and maintenance .

8 Helping hand will help you file crpc 125 .

9. Helping hand will help you file 498 a .

laughwinksurprisedevil

 

 


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