Dear Lawyers Club India
I am a Doctorate and working as a Professor in an Engineering College Trichy, I am 31 years old and have been married since 13/12/2009. I have a son of age 4 years.I have been separtaed from my estranged wife since January 2013 I have been separated physcially after my childs birth. Due to her suspicion i had lost most of my life in a miserable way. Recently i came to know that she is elder to me by 2 years as per her birth certificate. My parents both work for the government and i have one unmarried brother. She has never been a good women throughout my life and i made up my mind in january 2013 that i should not live with her and i dont deserve her.
After elders intervention, negotitations and other many unwanted things have happen to me by her family i am not convinced and i stood my decision to file a divorce against her. It has been nearing three years and i am firm in my decision and my family members have given me the green light to proceed with.I have been married under hindu marriage act. To avoid any mishappenings from my side i have stopped speaking with her from january 2013. There is so such case of dowry harrasment and other things me and my family have done to her. She is living in my house with my mother and father with my son. Since my son is there my family has let her to stay with them. I would like to get your forums best opinion to file a legal notice. Whether i can file a notice under irretrievable breakdown of marriage. I want to solve this issue without any conflict arising from this. I just spoke to her regarding the legal notice and i tried her to come for mutual consent but she is not willing to do so. She know that money is plenty with us and she wants to exploit that and wanted our property.
Kindly help me in this case as this is disturbing my routine teaching and research activities.