I got married in April’10 & since then I’m facing mental harassment from my wife & her parents. I have my mother & unmarred sister at my home & at time of marriage I as living with them in Delhi. My mother is widow & sister doesn’t want to get marred because of her physical inability. From second week of marriage, there were every day verbal fights between my wife & rest of the family members. My wife & her parents were very well awarded of that face at time of marriage that I have to take care of my mother & sister but after marriage they made issue of “ why my sister staying at my home” There were many times, my elders mediated & tried to calm thing down so that my life won’t get spoiled. However, her parent always tries to put false allegation on me & my family. They always asked to get separated from my family.
Within 1 year we had many rounds of mediation by my & her relatives. She also called local police twice but had no reason why she called them other then “my in-laws are trying to harass me”. I was thinking to get separated at that time but my lawyer friend suggested me to give a try & get separated from family & this may also help to protect my mother & sister from misuse of 498a.
I left my parents house in June’11 & living separately in Noida with wife & 2 year daughter. However, leaving my parents house does not made considerable change in her attitude towards me & always finds reasons to fight with me. Furthermore we almost have zero physical relations since last 2 years, because she wants to have that on her own wish. Moreover, she is a big time layer, she always stops me to visit my mother but in front of others she denies.
I understand it is very difficult for a man to get divorce but after 3 years of mental torture is now impossible from to live with her. I’m a person who always tried to keep things simple & believe there is always a good hide behind all odds. But now water is flowing over my head & time has come to move forward. I’m not worried for my but concerned about my mother & sister & want to protect them.
Please help me,:
1. Can I file separation?
2. Can I live separately in some other rented house, If she is not agree to leave me?
3. What if she came to that rented house?
4. Can she go to my mother’s place & claim right to stay?
Please advice. It is not possible for me to live with her. Your advice can save few lives.