I was married in month of May 2012.It was an arranged marriage.one month after the marriage she started picking fights,on petty issues.something or the other..blame that i look at other women,sometimes that i am not good in bed..sometimes that i dont understand what she says..sometimes that i am not able to fulfill her expectations,sometimes that i am impotent.though i have proved this incorrect medically.still she left her matrimonial house after three months and is not willing to come back till date.i have tried patching up but she doesnt agree to come back and is neither asking for separation,now i want a separation as nothing is left now she has also now taken away all her belongings to her maternal house..my parents have discussed separation with her family as well,and now out of the blue they have demanded 25 lacs plusmaintenance apart from the jewellery that she has already taken away!!thats a big amount for me.When asked to explain the rationale behind this huge amount of money they have no explanation.i am apprehensive of the fact that now when I deny to give this amount cz i dont have this much with me they might make false accusations in the court .my family demanded no dowry from them and none of my family members ever lay a hand on her,instead we have been buying her gifts etc and taking her out to keep her happy still she holds angst against me and my family.she hasnt stayed with us for more than 6 months now!
Also,It has come to my notice that she herself has been consulting a lawyer and everytime we try to talk to her she picks up a fight and start shouting blaming me for her unhappiness.I do not wish to continue this relationahip anymore but I am afraid that if i'll initiate a divorce iwill have to pay too much which is very dificult given my financial situation.Her family also doesnt care and try to resolve the differences, she doesnt have a father only a working mother and a younger brother,would that increase my liability towards her financially?I am also apprehensive that she might cook stories and approach women cell as well.i have heard women cell does not trust the boy's side of the story.how will i be able to prove that we never asked for any dowry/there was no domestic violence etc..whatever she might cook..seeking your advise
