Please give your suggestion for my hmop cases.

Dear Sir/Madam, My wife after 1 month of marriage not like to live with me some miss understandings. i tried to rejoin more ways( parents and relatives discussion, counselling) in 3 years but unable to rejoin. So that i filed conjugal rights petition and the case is pending in court. Same time my wife filed divorce in other court. I didn't received any summon and notice from court till last one year and i didn't attend the divorce case filed by my wife. But now the court set ex-party divorce by section 13 i a . And court call my wife next hearing for ex-party evidence Can i stop the ex-party ? Marriage was completed 7 years but still now she refused to rejoin. So that If i do not take any action against the ex-party divorce, my wife can file any unwanted case (except maintenance) on me in future ? Please give your valuable suggestion for what action to take next? Thanks.