Need your kind attention....save my soul

What if i dont surrender,as i didnt got any official info about 498A?

No need to surrender apply for AB first.

She sent letters to the Hon'ble Judge of Family court after recieving summons(claiming that i m doing fraud by putting a case outside her jurisdiction).She never mentioned about any so called tortures or dowry demands in those letters.Nither she has disclosed about the 498A case in her letters to Family court and vice versa in her 498A complaint. Will this help me to prove her malicious intentions?
consult a good experinece lawyer, yes it may help to some extent but burden of proof of her torutre lie on her self so no need to worry much.

I have got the delivary status of all the registered letters sent to her by family court and also satisfied correct service of summons.She mentioned that she has a suckling baby(using my daughter as a tool),old ailing parents,applied for transfer of case in SC(family court asked her to provide with SC documents,she failed to submit) etc etc.as reason of her absence.If she files appeal for setting aside divorce,will these things help me?
keep the record of each and every letter with reciept and draft them datewise , usually wife try to use kids as weapon but latter they regreat for her doings , let her do whatever she is doing her main weapon was 498A and DV now she can file for maintenace but first fignt with 498A now no need of compramise no need to give her a single rupee. you can file counter case just read the blog of bharat chugh how to fingt with 498A. and read other post on LCI
During our marriage of 2 yrs, i hardly went to WB. But that too for 12-19 days vacation,3-4 times.Will there be any jurisdiction problem,as i got married at WB and got divorce from MP?

no problem where the couple is residing is also a juridiction so you can fight from MP.

Can a high court overpower judgement given by other state family court?

if appeal is there then high court revise the case.but judgement is given on merits / facts of the case.

Can i remarry and file for child custody at a state(a 3rd state) where i am posted now?

no after getting divorce only you can remarry you can file for custody or child and visitation where to file consult your lawyer but usually it will be filed where the child is residing at present.

How can i assure peaceful living with 2nd wife(if marriage takes place) legally? Will RCR from 2nd wife keep evils away?If not,what should be done to stop interference of ex?
why RCR for second wife? it is not understood. RCR is filed when wife is not living with you and leave you without any specific reason, if second wife is there , then no need of RCR the court case are meant for dispute and solution of it, is your second wife also left you?

Kindly help, will return the favour by 'fighting all odds' at a border for u,lovely peoples......thanxx in adv.