We got married on 10th March 2012. Marriage was settled with the parent concent. Marriage talks started on 10th november, and after final discussion we started talking, over phone. In the initial talks we used to talk regarding our likes and dislikes. But I always felt a sense of non-affection from her side.
I thought it is due to her official problems. but this behaviour continued. After engagement , one day while talking i asked her what is the reason behind her different behaviour, then she told me about her previous affair and she cried a lot over phone and told not to disclose this this with my family members, otherwise they will break this marraige. I also though these things are her past so i should not be bothered. So , i took a promise from her that she will no more think about that guy.
After marriage when we came back to bangalore, she again started behaving very badly with me, for small small reason she started fighting with me and started calling her parents and told them that i am torturing her.
she never allowed me to establish physical relationship. everytime she used make some bahana like stomach ace, body ache, headache and some times she told that she is not feeling like that. Some or the other time upon insisting she used to sleep like a dead body and there were no co-operation, so i left doing that.
On june 23 she went to her parents house and suddenly they stated asking for mutual divorce and 10 lakhs ruppess as the compensation which they are saying they have spent in the marriage.
they are saying if we will not give this then they will file the dowry case and hrassment case on me and my family.
Please suggest me what should be my next step ? she had never allowed me to establish a physical relation ? Is there any way i can file a case against them ?
My major question is that , in order to get over this trauma , if i will give them money also, will they be able to file any dowry case against me and my family ?
early response will be highly appriciated as i want to close this chapter as soon as possible .
This is very unfortunate that now a days girl and her family are using dowry case as a weapon to earn money