Dear Experts,
There were few fire accidents at my home few months back. The reason for the fire accidents were unknown. We informed the police and the fire department about the accident. They too searched for the reason and were unable to find one. After this incident my wife left our house and hasnt come back till now.
We tried convincing her to get back home but she is very adamant that she wouldnt return back unless we change the house. This is the first accident that has happened in our house since it was purchased 30 yrs ago.So many good things in our lives have happened in this house only. Also, we all are in an joint family and i dont like to go nuclear (this was made very clear at the time of marriage). There hasnt been any other fire accidents since she left the house also.
Whenever we have sessions with their family for reconciliation, they aren't very supportive. They only speak about petty things that are extremely imaginary. (eg: I gifted a dog doll for her birthday. she happily accepted the gift at that time but now she says i persented her a dog because i expect her to wag the tail and come around me) Last time we had invited them for reconciliation and they started shouting up and down. Their parents almost removed her Mangal Sutra. My uncle interferred and told them that such things shouldnt happen in our house. Her mother also said she will find a better groom for her and get her remarried.
Now we are fearing if they give a false complaint in police about harrasement. pls advise.
