My husband abandoned me from 3 months now

i feel that your relationship is over, it ia all gone, he is not intrested in you and you want to force him to get intrested in you.Now that is you are going to make your rest of your life misireable. You are at this stage in position to take a decision about your future life and start your life afresh, sometimes it is better tio be alone then to get all the mess around your head. I really don't know whose mistake is at dig, but yes onething is certain that the match is really mis - match. Think propley if you can be obidient wife or just want to annoying for whole life. I feel that you should think of ending this relationship and start a life afresh and move on. IF you feel so it is better to get amutual divorce and stop bothering yourself. It appears he is intrested in anyother woman except you . So be it so.

Thanks for reply , but I feel if he is doing this things from starting of the relationship then why he trapped me here because this is fraud to get married to someone expect everything from.her looting money in wedding as well as he isn't allowing me to spend my money , so I am also not interested in him but letting go is not the solution I want to make sure that he should get punished for taking someone else's life casually and making it hard , I would have married someone else my life could have something different .so I am asking for that suggestion  ki what should I do now ? 

I can understand you are too hurt and feel like cheated, there are too many bad guys around and sometimes it is like fate . But i advise you to be positive instead of going in negativity and spoil your rest of life. It is better you just fairly see what you can recover from him like the sitridhan i.e your jewlellary and all that. 

If you still want to punsih him then file  for domestic voialance and get the complaint filed in police station under section 498A , and file against him and aother relatives who made you to suffer and mentally as well physcally tourtured you. He will get already spoiled.

Dear Ma'am,

At the outset, I am sorry for the sad state of affairs of your married life. It is a very murky place to be in life.

Having said that, from the question that you have written I felt that you are looking for a solution of getting back with your husband and changing his behavior towards you but from your reply to an answer above, I have felt that now you are also not interested in continuation of the relationship. 

Anywhichway, I shall suggest solutions under both the scenarios,

1. If you wish to give the relationship another chance by changing his behavior then you can approach a women police station and seek counselling there to help him change and further make them give him warning about treating you well and being invested in the relationship.

2. If you wish to end the relationship then for all the emotional abuse, mental trauma and cruelty that your husband has subjected you to you can file a formal complaint to the protection officer of your area under Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act and under Section 498A of IPC you can lodge an FIR against your husband. Other than that, you will have to file a divorce petition under Sec. 13 (1) (ia) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. 

If there are any further queries or you need any help with drafting formal complaint to be submitted to the Protection Officer and Police, you can contact me.

Thank you for your reply ..

Yes to your answer because  this is wrong on so many levels because he made false commitments promise's to me at the time of wedding which he never behaved like,  why he is expecting me to normalize his faltu behavior with some other women also he is irresponsible in all the terms like he don't do anything for house constantly call me names for everything I do good in our home .
 he left home then he asked for deposit of rented flat isn't it crime ? I am daily answering questions of society members its so unnecessary torture I have to go through ..Leaving wife for someone else by saying it on face , why people are not afraid to do these things, and even his parents are not bothered  , he Also used to provoke me and record stuff when I used to get angry and I found that one day I feel its all trap. He is not even keeping intimate relation with me from 4 months of marriage .I am really not going to forgive him  , but my parents are saying that just wait for few days we will take necessary actions but lets not end the things by making some complain. So thats the reason I want to check here on the professional forum that what Can I do  in terms of actions. Just for information he is state level govt employee .

Hello Sanjay Sir,

That's really helpful .

Yes as you said - I am trying to get him back ONLY BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS AND ALSO I DON'T HAVE ANY MOTIVE TO SEE SOMEONE ELSE OR MARRY SOMEONE ELSE. So I thought instead of ending things I should give my best if this can be solved but to be very frank I am really not interested in this marriage because of the all hell I have gone through and I don't have hope that he will change at any cost .

But still you gave me solution thanks you for that..

And when we were trying to sort things our when he left home every one used to humiliate my parents and they used to listen everything saying that ladki wale hai aur sunna padta hai , I feel very sad and furious when random people say  any humiliating things to my parents ,e.g. they are saying  he ( my husband) will fo anything and I must not uttar a word and I will  have to agree on this in front of 50 people , I am not ready for this because already there was so much torture happened to me and when my dad said ki how you guys can neglate his mistakes and ask us to do tjis then they say ki y"don't care about your daughter ". And on this term they literally doing whatever they want and getting done whatever they want . I am very much loved daughter so its very sad for my parents to listen that they are not caring about me so they do things for me like visiting my matrimonial home to sort things out and husband and his parents don't even miss the chance to say mean things to them .now I am done with all this bullsh*t . 

So I will wait for some days plan everything and I will file complain as you said .

Sorry for writing these long essays but giving clear idea of whats happening with me will be easy for everyone to answer thats my motive behind this.

I will certainly  get in touch with you when required .

Thanks for the prompt response I really appreciate .