I am from south India and am planning to marry my mom's -- brother's daughter(Mardalu) which i believe is cross cousins and as she is not under same gothra.I would become Bava to her and its very common in South india , marraiges do happen between Bava - Mardalu
I have couple of questions
1) Marrying Mardalu ie..Mamayas daughter is very common in South india .Why is it listed under prohibited relationship.Is this clause not applciable to South india (Tamilnadu,Kerala,Andharapradesh,Telangan) or my understanding is incorrect ?
2) We are planning to get married in Arya samaj , is the marraige considered legal in society till we register the marriage ?
3) Once we registerd the marraige ,If i have given Ration card/Passport/Driving licnese as proof but not the adhar card ,still will the marital status gets updated in Adhar card or Do i need to change the marital status explicitly later.
4) If i pay 10k for the tatkal marraige certificate as mentioned .Will i get the marraige certificate on the same day ?