|Originally posted by : Harsh
||We tried a lot for them to find an ambicable solution. They have gone to all my family members saying that I am a drunkard and beat and torture her whereas the truth is that she never wanted to stay with me. I was fully devoted to her but she was more interested in her boyfriend and she told her all details about me and he would threaten me. The baby was an unplanned baby but I accepted it and was happy, but she was not since it would restrict her going out now and then she could not meet her boyfriend.
I came to know about her affair last month when his boyfried gave me & my family threat to kill us, to which also my wife didi not accept it was her boyfriend.
I consulted a local lawyer who said that you cannot file for divorce now as she is pregnant. Wanted a second opinion so posted here.
Can anyone suggest a decent lawyer in Mumbai
You file divorce. but you tell that you did not know that she was pregnant. Mention same in the petitoin also. Do some adjust ment with the advocate. Dont seek referral, nobody will refer any advocate. It is risky to refer anyone in this field.
Marriage is about decorum. No decorum, no marriage. It might pain a little, but I dont think she will mend her ways, she will continue chatting with boyfriend.
After 5 years when you have used her properly, and kid is grown up a bit, then automatically you wont mind her talking to anyone. You will also find somene else to talk to in your office etc. Now as it is new, you are feeling uneasy as wife is talking to stranger.
Once little time pass, husbands wont mind wife going out for few days and not return home.
You file divorce now, you will have to pay alimony, face lot of cases on yourself and your parentage. All that will be head bursting pressure. You will be driven towards suicide.
Kid will be another headache. Think. and contact 9821476202 Advocate Shaila, Mumbai.