I started this thread on 07.06.2008, alas had you read it before your marriage.
https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/messages/2008/6/1748_why_men_should_refuse_to_marry_.asp
However, everything is not lost. When such cases are files, men feel tremendous amount of torture and frustation. They dont know how to get out of it.
Well dont try to get out of it. Refuse to settle or even talk to the other party. Let them pursue the matter on their own. Dont give divorce. Yes, you may have to go to Agra on intervals.
One of my friend is living on a disease- he has to to Mumbai (from guwhati) every 3 months for a medical check up. And still he is happy, for he has accepted his misfortune. Accept this misfortune, for you have yourself opted for it.
