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How to handle conniving sister-in-law

Long story short. I am an NRI, staying in UK for close to 11 years. I have a house in India. I have given this house to my parents to stay there. As mentioned in earlier posts, my parents with my brother wants to grab my house( which I purchased while working in Hyd). Since I am an NRI, they want everything whatever I have in India. Weird mentality.

 

My parents have purposefully deserted my house some 2.5 years back.

 

Now, I am planning to send my wife to India to open my deserted house and clean the same.

 

My sister-in-law (my brother's wife) is a very weird person. Kind of specialist in staging all kinds of dramas and she is too good in throwing tantrums. This talent is kind of dowry gift from her mother.

 

 If she doesn't like someone, then she will voluntarily start a conversation, quickly convert the same into a heated argument and finally she go bang her head, or break things around her or will hurt herself.

 

In 2 occasions, she has consumed poison and later got her stomach washed.  In one of those 2 occasions, she was pregnant. She instructed my brother not visit our maternal uncle’s house. He didn’t listen to her. So, to teach him a lesson, she did this act.

 

My dad identified her talent and want to use the same in proper way.  My parents are instructing me that they want to receive my wife when she visits India. I understand why this request. My sister-in-law can easily create a big drama and she may hurt herself like consuming poison and will claim my wife is the cause for the same.

 

Simply put, they want to somehow slap a criminal case against us.

 

I have clearly instructed my wife NOT visit my brother’s house or even talk to them over the phone. Would that suffice? Any additional measures I need to consider?



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KS Johal   15 March 2016

If your parents and your brother and your sister-in-law are trying to grab your house then are you allowing your parents to pick up your wife at the airport or to receive her? I think your wife should not communicate with any of those people if they are trying to grab your house. Your wife should clean up the house call the estate agent and ask them to value the house and put it on sale. I don't get is any criminal case what's so ever. I understand that your sister-in-law will make accusations and possibly file a complaint at the police station. If your wife has a British passport then there are certain procedures that she can follow to sell the house that's if it is your intention. my email is: ksinghjohal@yahoo.co.uk

KS Johal   15 March 2016

If your parents and your brother and your sister-in-law are trying to grab your house then are you allowing your parents to pick up your wife at the airport or to receive her? I think your wife should not communicate with any of those people if they are trying to grab your house. Your wife should clean up the house call the estate agent and ask them to value the house and put it on sale. I don't get is any criminal case what's so ever. I understand that your sister-in-law will make accusations and possibly file a complaint at the police station. If your wife has a British passport then there are certain procedures that she can follow to sell the house that's if it is your intention. my email is: ksinghjohal@yahoo.co.uk

KS Johal   15 March 2016

Mistake in the above passage - sorry I don't** should be read as: I don't think that it amounts to a criminal case whatsoever.

k.n.VIJAYAKUMAR   15 March 2016

Simple sir. You do not inform any body. In India you take the help of a professional cleaning persons help. Next after this you just give the premises to school/ charity with a clear  document registered. 

Give it to anyy NGO. make your place usefull , that will be the best way to protect/ maintain the property 

wishes. 

NANDKUMAR B SAWANT (ADVOCATE./LAWYER)     20 March 2016

sir,

you have purchased the said house. hence you are legal owner of the said house. so be confident and you or your family including wife may  take the possession of your house and put your lock and you may either rent it or dispose of the same by selling it.  You may also give a news paper publication regarding said house that you are the legal owner of said house and no one should enter in to any agreement with any one regarding change or transfer of ownership without your written concent . You may send the copy of said legal notice which is published in news paper to the Registrar of properties in collector office and also to the city survey officer to make note on all property records.This will safeguard you from any illegal attempt to sale or transfer your said house property. Good luck.

N.B.Sawant.,M.Com.LL.B.Advocate High court,


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