my friend Gyani ha been in the problem with her girl friend...her girl friend wants to marry and also black mailing him that if he doesnt marry her she will die and blaim his parents and him...
girl parents saw the boy and girl talking each other and also they have very badly beaten the girl and the boy and done the coat marriage of both of them and also the girl was not loyal to the boy..and the girl was also sixteenth year old..the boy doesnt want to marry the girl...as he even not doing job anywhere and he was still studying in 2nd year BA,and software engineering diplopa(GNIIT)
and the girl was also studying 11th also not completed her study what to do please help us.....
Let your friend put more consentration in their studies. The studies will help him to build up character. By character gain he will get all in future and joy life.
entirely a comedy of errors...
better seek help of parents and some close friends to settle the matter peacefully.
1. Today for continuing marriage money is required; either from parents or self earning.
2. Both of you donot have sustenance model in place besides one person is not loyal to relationship.
Hence drop the idea of marriage with this female person and grow up to earn a decent living and then you will see many more girls / girls parents falling in queue for your hand in marriage for their daughter's.
The so called court marriage / beating should be left behind.
I agree with Mr. Kiran kumar,Dont spoil the life.
Fall in love, their parents beat you up, beat up their own daughter, your parents come to know, they beat you up to pulp, still pyar kiya toh darna kya ka bhoot chadahi rehta he. All that fine.
But did you know marriage is a costly affair these days?
Marriage of course is about love, affection, caring, bonding etc. But if the equations mismatch in due course of time, the male should be ready to face 498a, DV etc, doing rounds of police station, facing 125 and paying money, not able to pay money, running for cover, literally go underground as if you have just now turned into dawod Ibrahim, then if you don’t pay money in the court when the wife applies for divorce, warrant issue, NBW, and don’t forget one has to pay the black coat guy, he wont do it for free, your case.
Marriage is a costly affair man! Think a zillion times before tying the knot!!