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varinder (technician)     22 May 2013

Harrasment

i was married in june last year and over the period of time relations

with my wife had gone sour she is always suspicious of me that

i have affairs going on .i have told her many times that she has all

those wrong perceptions and i told her that you have full liberty of

cheaking my mobile fone and mails and ask her if she has proofs

she has instaled softwares on my laptop like keylogger to hack

my emails but as she is wrong nothing came out but still she is

constantly harrasing me it is now un bearable to withstand false

alligations,she meanwhile strained her relations with all my

family members due to her habits and left for her fathers house

since some months but still harassing me on emails. i cannot

handle anymore and want divorce because i know she will never

change and make my life even more difficult in future.what should

i do



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Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     22 May 2013

Immedietaly you wont grant divorce but you can convince her and take mutual divorce after completing one year of your marriage on the same ground as you stated above but mutual divorce means both parties should agree for and appear and after 6 months 2 time you should appear and court will grant 

the whole process will take nearly 8 to 10 months 

ajay sethi (lawyer)     22 May 2013

it appears your wife is not working . if she is at home whole day and has a inferirority complex or low self esteem she may be suspicious about you . it is better you consult a marriage counsellor . if your wife starts working then she would be quite busy in her own work and wont have time to think about your alleged affiars . go and visit her and bring her back to your matrimonal home . increase her self confidence .let her  join some local gym or club .go for morning walks together  if inspite of your efforts situation dosent improve then file for divorce .


(Guest)

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Agreed with expert, apart from working part.


Asking wife to work can be termed as cruelty under DV.


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