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guy669 (xyx)     18 September 2012

Divorce proceedings

Respected Sir, 

 I have filled a case for nullity of marriage on basis for non consumination of marriage, later even my ex wife has also fillled a case of nullity of marriage , the case has been registered in family court,

i just want to know how long this proccedings will take place,i have around 25 points she has also around 25 points.She has also claimed that i am impotent ,mental porblem and neurological problem.

But I have got genuine certificates from govt doctors that i am perfectly healthy person.Now how the court is going to proceed in this matter, whether i have to undergo all the tests , to prove that i am a potent person.my ex wife hardly stayed 15 days with me, and she has not cooperated with me in my married life.

also she has claimed i have falsified my educational and  slaray details, how can she prove this points, how long it will take, even if she is able to prove , what punishment the court is going to award me.

how should i go along in handling this case. 

i have lost trust on lawyers as the opponent party have influene , and i feel iam completely lost, whether can i handle this case alone, without a lawyer. 

She also taken away 25lakh jewellery along with her , wich she denies having them.Now apart from that she is asking 16 lakhs for finishing this iuues, i am from a lower middle class family.I dont have so much money to pay, they are blakmailing me.

plz advise me sir.

Thanking you,

Good Guy

 



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Anish Thakur 7018812737 (advocate)     18 September 2012

dear querist ,

you are in trouble and get ready to face legal proceedings as your wife can file against you beside the prsent course of law in the court,

STEPS TO BE TAKEN AGAINST  FALSE PRE 498A and domestic voilence act steps -

We have joined hands to fight similar type of problems related to false cases in Save Indian Family
yahoo Groups. We suggest you to do following:-
Do not take the matter lightly. This is quite common practice by some greedy and business
minded women in India. Think quick & smart. Whatever happens just stay cool, don’t express
your anger to anyone (Officers, public, neighbors, In-Laws etc.). Stay Polite in EVERY situation.
Contact a lawyer you can trust, ask the members of Save Indian Family Yahoo Group for the
reference of trustable and able lawyer in your area. You have to work harder than your lawyer
and above all keep calm, keep collecting evidence, maintain your professional job etc.
1.KEEP YOURSELF CALM AND POLITE.
2. Make a detailed statement (with every detail you can think of, do not worry if the document
becomes lengthy one) about your innocence and handover to police commissioner in writing
(copies to SHO your local police station, ACP your local police station, DSP your local police station
and a copy to ACP of her local police station. State in the document that you are under threat of
"Falsely Implicating you, your parents and relatives in Dowry related and other criminal cases". If
possible mention Blackmailing etc. This is sort of Advance Declaration from your side about your
situation and your problems. This will be your weapon to defend their allegation.
If you have any evidence, file a complaint in police station and get a stamped copy, if not possible
send through registered post. Then move to court and try to register the same under criminal
procedure 156(3), for necessary investigation.
If the complaint made in police, CAW cell , try to get the copy and apply for Anticipatory bail , court
notice for protection whatever applicable as per your state , at any cost you or your family member
should not surrender to police , once you are able to get the bail , they will be under pressure .
Collect all the related judgments, from Supreme Court and high court, to get the bail easily.
Always ask the bail for family members first (except husband) . Once the same achieved , then
apply for the bail for husband in lower court , lower court will may reject it , move to session
court ( may reject it ) , move to high court ( may reject it ) , then move to supreme court , we are
here to help you out.
Normally at High court it self the bail or arrest stop judgment gives, as they know Supreme Court
Judges are not fool. In case of TADA/POTA also people get bail, this is a family dispute only.
3. Collect evidences of Your innocene. Because you have to prove that you are innocent. SHE
DOESNT NEED TO PROVE ANYTHING. This you can send to president of India, Prime minister of India,
Human right organization, News paper Editors etc.
1 of 2
www.498a.org
4. Be cautious while talking over phone etc. They might be recording it.
5. Record their conversation if they speak to you about all this. Keep the backups of the
evidence.
6. Gain knowledge about laws and your rights. It is very necessary for you to make an effective
Action Plan. Join our group and browse for the uploaded files in our website and search in Google
for 'Misuse of 498A'. Gain knowledge and confidence. Because only you know about your
relationship status and having knowledge about LAWS and FACTS definitely will help you to make
an effective plan.
7 Don’t by shy in public. Don’t try to hide this matter anymore. This happens in each and every
3rd house in India. Let neighbors, friend circle and others know the facts from you before she
spreads any FALSE story.
8. If possible keep track of their current activities if you have some 'Reliable Source of
information' from the other side.
9. Check for the evidence in your premises which could be used to prove that she is NOT willing to
continue with you and SHE JUST WANTS TO WALK OUT FROM THE BOND OF MARRIAGE for no
apparent reason.
9. If you want to reduce the problem for your family members, disown your self from your father
legally and book a working hostel /accommodation , to show that you stay separately , no relation
with your other family members .
FEEL FREE TO CALL FOR DETAILED ADVISE.
 

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     19 September 2012

Originally posted by : Anish Thakur 9459321520
  We have joined hands to fight similar type of problems related to false cases in Save Indian Family
yahoo Groups. We suggest you to do following:-

www.498a.org
 

 @ Anish

So a advocate of SC standing has come and joined Save Indian Family and 498a.org ! WOW simply superb news of the day :-)

I feel what a let down of standards of advocates claiming to practice before SC has come to that they have to now join hands with SIF and 498a.org wow I am impressed sitting in Delhi to discover this from you reading your previous profile which if you want I can annex in next reply mail before you changed your profile to present one ;-)

BTW, which Chapter of SIF do you claim to represent  OR have joined hands with as you say in your above reply ?

I would like to ensure you are out of that chapter with immediate effect.

 


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