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Mr. VST (Manager)     20 October 2012

Divorce petition in court vs. mahila helpline

Dear All Respected Forum Members ,

I will explain my case shortly and would request advise from various Members on this forum .

1. Since marriage in 2009 my wife has been very quarrelsome and abusive does nto respects anyone in family .

2. I kept quiet keeping hope that with time things will improve , but in Jan 2012 this year she left home and did not come back due to very small quarrel on milk issue .

3. I did not ask her to come back and suddenly she came back herself after 4-5 days .

4. then finally from Jan - March we requested girl parents to sit down and look at the issues and solve it but they did not gave any positive response .

5.She use to abuse me on facebook and gtalk with words like f**k off and f**k you and other tag lines which portrayed by my wife to  to everyone on facebook and gtalk that I am a bad person .

6. I have save all the abuses on internet done to me .

7. Finally in April we sent a legal notice to them saying that if they do not mutualy solve this issue we will file petition in court for divorce , but gir and her family did not replied to this notice .

8. Then Girl started coming home late in night some days in mid night after 12 and sometimes she did not come back home at all over weekends , when i asked her where she is she says  its none of my business .

9. to above i sent a telegram to girls parents about her behaviour of being missing from home during nights but no response and i used to send a sms also to her parents cell pphone informing them about girl is missing from home during the night ( all evidences are saved with me )

10. Finally now it was July 2012 and her father expired even though she abused me and did everything i still went to her parents house and completed alll my responsibilities for 3-4 days there taking leave from office .

11. But they misbehaved with me and did not even offer me water / tea in their house even though i was there for 4 days , but i still did not say anything to her .

12 .Since her father death she is staying with her mother ( her both kidneys are non functioning so she needs someones support ) without any information to me and did not come back to her matrimonial home  .

13. in Sept 2012 her bro called me and asked me he needs he sis clothes which r at my home of winters i told him u can take all but pls sit down and sort the issue we even had minor arguements over phone on this issue .

14 . i never expected but same day in night at 2 AM he came to my house with 5 goons and threatened to murder me and collected the clothes abused me and beated me and went away and even threatened to kill my father .

15 . after above happened i finally filed a petition in court in dehradun for divorce under grounds of mental cruetly , i have evidences of internet of abuse done to me since last 3 yrs and other day to day incidences i mentioned but i have no evidences to day to day incidences for eg when i used to give her medicine for some pain she used to throw it away and said nakli dawai hai .

 

16 . As soon as court isssued summon to her for hearing on 8th Sept 2012 , She went and complained to Mahila Helpline in Dehradun , and they called me today and said today is councelling why i was missig ? i said i have no clue about any counselling or date then the lady explained me that my wife has given some application there reg our dispute when i asked what is in the application she refused to tell and asked me to visit them on next available date in next week .

17 . My Question is if i have filed case in court should i go to Mahila Helpline if they call me should i skip it ?

18 . What other action can i take ? some advises are welcome , pls advise

 

Regards

VST

 



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 2 Replies

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     22 October 2012

1. Attending Mahila Helpline is not compulsory.
2. Wait and watch the developments.

 

naives (Manager)     14 November 2014

we are in a similar situation...I think not attending Mahila Court  even once can go against you even in long term...I guess it is best to speak to a good local lawyer...


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