Aman (Senior Lead) 05 September 2009

Divorce Notice

Hi , I was recently laid off from my job . My wife is doing very good in her job.

There were differences between me and my wife right from day 1 of our marriage. When I was laid off she told me that she is not interested in living together. I convinced her for mutual divorce.

in the mean time , her mother intervened (which she was always kept doing).

I am still paying for all the rent and emis for the car which she is using(thoug I am jobless now).

Now she told me she wants to move to a seperate house. I told her lets get seperate then.

She told me she will and soon her parents will file a case in court and send us a notice.

Now what that notice is going to be and should I prepare to face the notice.

I think they are greedy people and can try to misuse law (which is in favor of women) though she is working well and I have never taken a single penny from her for anything.

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BALAJI S N (SR MANGER) 05 September 2009

Dear Aman

Pls advise the following:

- whether you marriage is arranged by elders as per Customs or Registered Marriage

- When you got married?

- No elders/parents are not available from your side?

- If you receive any notice, you will be called for counselling by Family court, where you can express your views

Do you need separation from your wife?

Pls advise to guide you further

Thanks/Balaji

Aman (Senior Lead) 05 September 2009

- whether you marriage is arranged by elders as per Customs or Registered Marriage

-Yes it is arranged by elders and it is registered.

- When you got married? - In Oct 2005

- No elders/parents are not available from your side?

-My father and mother are there and my father invited girl's father to talk also ,but girl's mother supports all her lies and she may brainwash her father and brothers though they know everything about her daughter/sister's nature.

- If you receive any notice, you will be called for counselling by Family court, where you can express your views

- I am in pune , my parents are in noida and girl's parents are in haryana. So where counselling would be held?

Do you need separation from your wife? - Yes because she desperately needs it , I tried many times to make things settle in an amicaable way , but no use..

Thanka a lot for your comments , I am looking forward to find a way out

krishankmittal (Retired) 05 September 2009

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