Originally posted by : Suryaa.saravanan
i married in 12.04.2010, she left my house in 26.06.2010 and she not come back to my home only two months she stay with me. i dont have any child and she file domestic voilence case u/s 12. in 2011 November. in the matter judge said to go mediacine and settle the matter. but she not settled matter.
dv case is comeing for arguments on feburarty 2013, what will be happen. please tell me.
i filed divorce case in Febraury 2012 and the notice issued on 20.03.2012, she appear in the court on first date of hearing on 20.03.2012. after first hearing of case. the hearing came on 05.06.2012, 30.08.2012, she and his lawyer not appear in the court and the matter will posted to 23.11.2012
on 23.11.2013 she is appear but that day judge is on leave and the matter will posted to 27.01.2013, again she is not appear, but she's lawyer appeared and till date she is not file reply. and judge told him to file the reply in advacne. what will be happen in this matter. can i get exparte or not. the case is not moving, the case is pending till one year.
the matter is posted for 03.04.2013. what will be happen can you please suggest.
she telling me i am not give you divorce
Brother, nothing happen, date happen. she come or not come, her lawyer will turn up and take next date.
You telling one year, one year got 12 months, in family court one date depending on number of cases, and that too you have put the divorce case this year, you will get 4 dates, with a interval of 3 months, that amounts to 4 x 3 = 12 months. In 4 dates one year is over.
Same for next year, in between meidation happen, then mediation fail, so report goes to judge, judge wont let you go, judge will tell go for one more round of mediation, if that also fails, report goes to judge that mediation fail second time, in all of this judge might get transferred, and new judge will come,and he or she will see from the begining yours and her story, 99.99% again mediation will happen, make it two times...
Now somehow the matter comes for evidence and chief examination, then few more dates will be there, first your evidence, then your cross examination, then her evidence and her cross examination, later.. further cheif and cross examination.
In between all this, lawyers strike will happen, and again date you will get, one date means 3 months gone.
Some times judges also will strike and go on leave.
Some times that bandh this bandh all will be there, that time also you will get date.
and like you said, once you go, she wont come again date happen, she comes and you not go, again you get one more date.
Both go, but unfortunately opposite party lawyer wont come, then also date happen.
Date happens in family court. Now that's your date with the divorce case and family court. Alas, what a date !